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a best friend and ex stabbed me in the back
14/f
freshman
D = ex boyfriend
J = close friend
I still realyl like D. Last week I broke up with him and I had reasons. I still really like him and I regrett breaking up with him. This past weekend I was talking to J about this and she told me that if i really like him then I should go back out with him. J just got out of a three year relationship with her ex and she dated him on and off. Yesterday after school I was going to tell D how I felt but J told D she liked him and asked him out. I feel so betrayed. Now D and J are going out. I really like D and J and D himself know that. D says he likes me too. I already talked to J about this and she is trying to comfort me but I am still mad because Im close to being in love with her now boyfriend. I tried talking to D but he wouldnt talk back. U cried today when I got to school seeing them together. I really miss him. What should I do?
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That has got to hurt. I had that happen to me before, and i lost BOTH friends over it. What i would do is if they don't talk to you, try talking to their parents or your parents and see if the parents will talk some sense into them. If that doesn't feel comfortable for you, it may hurt inside, but if they don't want your friendship, maybe you should find true friends.
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You need to leave both of these people behind. That is a really low thing to do. J has absolutely no right to do that. I would be infuriated. She's supposed to be your friend. And any ex that will date your close friend is not worth your time. Do your best to forget about these people. They're sketchy characters and you deserve a better friend and boyfriend. Try hanging out with your other friends. Go out and try to meet new people. It won't be easy to get over this, but you have to do it. Don't set yourself up to be hurt even more.
Darby(:
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