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how do i know?
Posted Wednesday May 27 2009, 7:42 pm
Ok I met a girl about a month ago and she's really cool we talk everyday and we've hung out with each other I think I might like her but her last break up was really bad and she's pretty much like I'm done with guys but I'm willing to wait but how will I know when the time is right?
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the ex
Posted Wednesday May 27 2009, 5:57 pm
hey i liked the advice you've given me before :) soo..
i'm bringing my ex with me on vacation in july. we broke up in april, but we both decided that we were still gonna stay good friends and see where things go from there. i'm still in love with him. he broke it with me because he said his feelings changed, but he said he still wanted me in his life, and i know he means it too. we're going to myrtle beach together and do you think theres a chance of him falling back in love if we're like on the beach at night flirting and hanging out? what do you think of this situation? and what things can i do to make it as romantic as possible. i would do absolutely anything to get back with this guy.
17/f, 17/m
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bringing my ex with me..
Posted Wednesday May 27 2009, 4:37 pm
i'm bringing my ex with me on vacation in july. we broke up in april, but we both decided that we were still gonna stay good friends and see where things go from there. i'm still in love with him. he broke it with me because he said his feelings changed, but he said he still wanted me in his life, and i know he means it too. we're going to myrtle beach together and do you think theres a chance of him falling back in love if we're like on the beach at night having fun and stuff? and what things can i do to make it as romantic as possible. i need experiences from people who have gotten back with their exes, etc. i would do absolutely anything to get back with this guy.
17/f, 17/m
thanks so much for your time.
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am i turning into a whore?
Posted Wednesday May 27 2009, 4:17 pm
okay so,
i have had quite a few people tell me imma whore because im flirty..
i don't mean to be but it's my personality..
and i like to hug people&stuff.
i REALLY don't went this reputation ..
someone please help!
thanks to all who help me <33:)
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getting a boy to fall for me
Posted Wednesday May 27 2009, 3:49 pm
there is this guy at work that i have hung out with several times and we have hooked up. i thought things were going great on both sides and that we were on the same page and then i think i scared him off. i told him i had feelings for him and i dont think he was ready for that. either way, how do i get him to get back the interest in me? i feel like i may have fucked this one up. but i would really like to get to know him.. how do i get him to start calling and texting me again?
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Bored of Lads..
Posted Wednesday May 27 2009, 2:29 pm
Im not to sure how to explain this but here we go..
Straight to the point..i get bored of lads really easily. When i say bored i dont mean like we dont do exciting things etc. and its never anything the lad does wrong .. i just seem to get bored of spending time with the same person and eventually i hate speaking to them and they start to annoy me. This happens after about 2 weeks with every boy that i start to like :/ Its really getting to me now because i just want a LONG relationship.
I just want to know does anybody else have this problem? And what can i do to stop me from getting bored!??!?! xxxx
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Posted Wednesday May 27 2009, 4:03 am
thankyou for ansawing my qustion.
although iam still finding it hard after all these years to come to terms with not being with this
lady.i do see her around from time to time where i try to be polite towards her. as i was walking away from her she was telling the person she was with what we used to get up to which they were both laughing at me. i didnt relise someone who i cared so much about could be so cruel. she was making fun about my weight so i turned round and tryed to point out that when she was slightly overweight when she was with me to which she was hevier than iam now at that point she just continued to laugh at me.all i was doing was trying to be sival towards her.how can i deal with these insults if i bump into her in the streets in the future.
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crush
Posted Wednesday May 27 2009, 1:43 am
okay so i've had an on/off crush on my friend anthony since last summer. he liked me the end of the summer & we sorta had a thing during winter break..i told him that i like him in april, but he said he was confused with a lot of things. as soon as i told him i started to not like him as much and then thought i didn't have any feelings for him (i do this with guys a lot) then like last week i found out that he likes my friend nicole and basically confessed his love for her. she doesn't want anything to do with him but i think she likes the attention she is getting from the situation. but i'm like jealous because i don't know why all of a sudden he stopped liking me (if he did). she thinks he started to like her because she was the only ...
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unaffectionately in love?
Posted Wednesday May 27 2009, 12:41 am
so when i first started dating my bf he was so much more into me than i was into him. He managed to somehow get me to give him a change because of the way he was acting towards me. always the sweetest, and surprising me and taking me places.
its been about 3 months and lately hes just been kinda whatever with me. he told me it was because he didnt think i felt the same way about him as he did about me, which was true. but that was about a month ago and since then i realized i liked him more than i thought i did, and started showing it. However, he is still not the same. He's barely ever sweet to me except when we are in person. he used to txt me all the time and call me and want to talk/be with me. now its like i call him about the ...
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I feel it is time to ask my girl for her hand!
Posted Tuesday May 26 2009, 11:29 pm
I have been in this relationship around a year I do have a gem for a girl friend and there is no doubt that she wants to marry me . I just want to get more of my eggs in a row although I am thinking more along the lines of marriage and not so much ingagement.So my question is would this be to soon?Keep in mind we are not young 18 year olds we are both 45 years old she has been single for over 20 years while she made commitments to raising her children now they are grown and so are mine I am a widower my wife passed away in 1985 although I did date over the years I was single for 6 years prior to meeting her in church.And yes we dont sleep together.We choose to be patient.
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attracting clingers
Posted Tuesday May 26 2009, 11:14 pm
For some reason, I attract clingy, pushy guys. I'm 20/F and I'm upfront that I don't want a relationship at this point. So when I flirt/hookup with guys, they call and call and don't stop. I try telling them I'm busy or ignoring the call, but they're relentless! How do I go about handling this? I don't want to hurt anyone and it's not like I want to stop seeing them completely, but it'd be nice if they backed off a bit. How should I approach this and what can I say to them without being hurtful?
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moving out
Posted Tuesday May 26 2009, 10:33 pm
hey im 18/f and planning on moving out of my parents house and my boyfriend and I are going to get an apartment. we've been dating for about 6 months. I really do love him. but as june gets closer (which is when I plan to move out) my parents are supportive. but today I went through my head all the what-ifs. I started thinking that maybe my boyfriend isn't the one and maybe I should play the field and maybe this and that. he believes were going to be together for a really long time. I thought that to but now im doubting myself. is this normal to think this?
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girlfriend troubles
Posted Tuesday May 26 2009, 6:25 pm
18/F
So my girlfriend and I have hit that rocky part of the relationship...i hope just a phase. we are arguing about everything and just i feel like we really need a romantic date just to remind us of how in love we are... I live in the danvers/boston MA area, does anyone have any good restaurants/ places to go that are rly romantic?
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can't get him off my mind
Posted Tuesday May 26 2009, 5:49 pm
we were each other's first love or whatever. I'm 16 by the way. We went out for a year. The relationship was good, with its ups and downs but we held on.He had a friend that liked me and wanted to take me away.....then i told him that one of my new kinda friends at school thought he was cute....He had the nerve to call her one weeked and ask her to chil!!!haha...we broke up...we haven't talked or seen each other for three or four months. My friend and I are super close now. He would always talk shit about me to her...try to make me look bad all the time. But my friend would always stand up for me...i was even able to read some emails of her defending me. I thought that was really cool. And he always tries to talk bad about me...he doesn't a...
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so complicated
Posted Tuesday May 26 2009, 4:53 pm
im 18/f & my ex-boyfriend is 19. we dated for two years but have 3 years of history together. we're each others first loves, planned to get married, everything. well we broke up back in march because problems started to arise. he changed from making me feel like the most important person in the world, always showing & telling me how much he loved me, wanting to be around me all the time, everything, to not showing any emotion and just acting careless about everything because one of his former "good" friends came back in the picture and suddenly he was always with her. so, we fought, we yelled we cried, i threatened to leave several times if he didnt get his shit straight, he still acted indifferent, so we broke up. a week ...
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Was his answer another way of saying he loves me?
Posted Tuesday May 26 2009, 3:26 pm
A few days ago, my boyfriend (of over 9 happy months) asked if I love him. I told him I don't know, mostly because I'm 17 and know that I am naive about relationships (he said this was a "smart" answer for a teenage girl). When I asked him how he would have answered if I had asked him first, he said that he wouldn't have answered because he'd be afraid of scaring me away. Does this mean he does love me but didn't want to come on too strong, thinking I might not feel the same? Are there other ways to interpret his answer?
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is it really over?
Posted Tuesday May 26 2009, 1:54 pm
ok,
well iv started going out with this girl, and we have went out before but she left me for her ex. and i understood at the time because well they had something differnt and yeah.
but now we are going out again and she said at the beggining she definately doesnt like her ex again. but now she wants to give it a break for a while to sort out her head. because she said she wants to make 100 percent sure she wont fuck me over again and she isnt sure whats going on in her head about him. she said she knows they dont work and she doesnt want to have these feelings.
so do you think its over? i mean...i know your probably gonna say its not worth it that she is just messing me around or whatever i just...
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i'm married and pregnant
Posted Tuesday May 26 2009, 6:17 am
my husband (35) & i (34) have 2 sons. we talked about trying to get pregnant in the fall or early spring. well, i just found out that we're pregnant and it's a little earlier than we planned, but i'm ecstatic. well my husband is not so ecstatic. he asked me to consider POSTPONING the pregnancy; i'm outraged. i don't judge people who have abortions, but that's not even an option for me. we're both employed with good jobs & together we earn over $100,000 (i know that's not rich, but we do ok). he fears that our quality of life will change. we are at an impasse! HELP!
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a past affair that i cant forget
Posted Tuesday May 26 2009, 4:52 am
in my early 20s i had a affair with a lady 20 years older than me the sneeking around was quite a thrill we always met up most wednesday evenings after her visit to weightwatchers we would then drive to a quite spot and have fantasic sex or i would take days off work and we would go to a hotel for the day where the sex was better as i was a lot younger than her i was enjoying what was to be a great adventure. as i was a shy person i would never had done anything like this. as time went on i was falling in love with her and she told me that she loved me. this lasted for 18 months for her then to tell me she was going back to her husband . this turned out to be untrue she went back to a past affair she was having.this lady took away 18 month...
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well...
Posted Tuesday May 26 2009, 12:54 am
so i'm still inlove with my first boyfriend. After I broke up with him, he went onto one of the girls that I had told him thought he was cute...this was during the relationship. They never went out...but i'm really close with the girl now...and she would tell me all about their converstions. He always brought me up and talked bad about me. their conversations would based on how weird or whatevever I am....just basically talking shit....i don't get it....so what do you guys think this means? i know sometimes people on here try to say things just to make a person feel better, but straight up honesty for me wont hurt at all! so please, i don't care how much it will hurt, but at least I will know the truth of what this sutuation really seems like.
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