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unaffectionately in love?
so when i first started dating my bf he was so much more into me than i was into him. He managed to somehow get me to give him a change because of the way he was acting towards me. always the sweetest, and surprising me and taking me places.
its been about 3 months and lately hes just been kinda whatever with me. he told me it was because he didnt think i felt the same way about him as he did about me, which was true. but that was about a month ago and since then i realized i liked him more than i thought i did, and started showing it. However, he is still not the same. He's barely ever sweet to me except when we are in person. he used to txt me all the time and call me and want to talk/be with me. now its like i call him about the same amount of times he calls me, and he barely ever texts me anymore. However, he constantly tells me he loves me. I don't get it? is it possible some people are just not that affectionate? today for example, he hasn't talked to me at all! if hes just not that affectionate, then why was he in the beginning? its why I gave him a chance in the first place. what should i do to let him know this lack of affection is bothering me? oh and as an extra note, he is affectionate when were together, just not when we are apart. he barely contacts me anymore. am i making a big deal about it when it really isn't???? is talking over the phone everyday necessary in a relationship where i only get to see him once or twice a week? advice?
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The first thing i would say to you is to tell him exactly what you have told everybody on here. But i know that some people cant do that and actually want other advice.
I think this is a "wanting what you havent got" sort of thing. Like in the beggining the fact that you didnt like him that much made him want to make you like him more .. so he was sweet etc.
Now that you do like him more .. he doesnt feel the need to be like he was in the beggining..because in a way he has you now.
This doesnt mean he still doesnt feel the same about you because as you said he is still affectionate when you are together :)
If i were you i would speak to him about how it is making you feel .. how else is he going to know he is doing something to make you unhappy? Hope everything works out okay :) xx
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