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moving out
hey im 18/f and planning on moving out of my parents house and my boyfriend and I are going to get an apartment. we've been dating for about 6 months. I really do love him. but as june gets closer (which is when I plan to move out) my parents are supportive. but today I went through my head all the what-ifs. I started thinking that maybe my boyfriend isn't the one and maybe I should play the field and maybe this and that. he believes were going to be together for a really long time. I thought that to but now im doubting myself. is this normal to think this?
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It's completely normal to have those kind of doubts, i went through the same thing when i moved out of home to live with my boyfriend of 7 months.
I even kept some things at my mums house incase we split up and i needed to move back in with her, but were still together 4 years later.
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The things you're thinking and feeling are completely normal. Whats more, its a good thing to look at all the ways a situation can play out. The thing you have to realize is that poeple grow and mature and change, and it is possible that your boy friend may not be the one, but at the same time maybe he is. It's all about time, if you grow and change together then everything is great, but if not, its not the end of the world. Remember just becasue you are dateing him now dosn't mean you have to marry him, you are still young. If you dont love him anymore, then you should play the feild, but if thats not the case don't break it off out of "the fear of missing out" because if you really love him you are not missing anything. Besides, like i said your still young, there is plenty of time for you still.
I would suggest an affordable appartment and a good job so you know that you can be independent and support yourself alone if you have to. But after that, just relax and have fun, enjoy your relationship and let it take the course it is menat to. And above all, do what your heart says is right.
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