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thankyou for ansawing my qustion.
although iam still finding it hard after all these years to come to terms with not being with this
lady.i do see her around from time to time where i try to be polite towards her. as i was walking away from her she was telling the person she was with what we used to get up to which they were both laughing at me. i didnt relise someone who i cared so much about could be so cruel. she was making fun about my weight so i turned round and tryed to point out that when she was slightly overweight when she was with me to which she was hevier than iam now at that point she just continued to laugh at me.all i was doing was trying to be sival towards her.how can i deal with these insults if i bump into her in the streets in the future.
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Here's how you deal with it: be PROUD of the fact that you are a person of strong, upstanding character who has taken the high road while she has chosen to take the low road.
Have you ever seen that comedian Ron White's show "you can't fix stupid"? He talks about how if you're fat you can lose weight, if your nose is crooked you can fix it, etc.- but you can't fix stupid!! ha ha! (He was referring to an ex of his who was stupid and that there was no cure for that).
Anyway- my point in telling you that is that is that there are some things that are much more important than looks. Having a good heart is much more important. You just need someone who can see that in you and appreciate it.
If you bump into her in the future you just smile. Stand up straight, walk proud, and smile- because you have something to smile about.
PS- Here's a good quote for you too:
"No one can ever make you feel inferior without your consent"
- Eleanor Roosevelt
That means people can only hurt you if you give them that power. You decide to assign that kind of power to them or not.
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