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my bestfriend


Posted Friday June 19 2009, 11:09 pm

i'm 16 and she is 14 we're best friends and have been for a long time how do i know if she likes me?

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i want more touching+flirting!


Posted Friday June 19 2009, 9:06 pm

13/f (im turning 14 the 25 of june)
my boyfriend and i have a pretty solid relationship. We give each other space and understand each others needs. Out of all the school relationships, we have gone the healthiest and farthest. We have recently gone to the next level. (Hickies, fingering, feeling) honestly i love it, i might be young, but im in on romance. i wish he could do it everytime together, the flirting the touching... but sometimes it seems as if he'd rather play in traffic. I know he has deep feelings for me, and i think we may have a future together. But how can i get him to understand that i want more flirtation?

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is this good??


Posted Friday June 19 2009, 8:35 pm

14/F

So I'm confused. I've heard that when a boy says you're "cute" it means that he doesn't really think you're that good looking but he would still hook up with you. Well I've been called cute a lot, but I'm not sure if its the same or not. After I say something funny/ditzy or if I have a blonde moment he will say "Ha, youre cute". Or when i come into school a boy will say "Well don't you look cute today?" and I'm just confused cuz I've heard them say to girls that they look hot so I don't know. Oh yeah I get a lot of "youre so adorable"s too. Maybe this is because I'm quite a bit younger than most of my grade? I don't know, what exactly does "cute" mean???

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This guy would rather text message it seems


Posted Friday June 19 2009, 7:08 pm

Hello,
I'm 19 & I've been talking to a guy I like who is 22 since September of 2008. In November of 2008 I slept with him once, which was very stupid of me. I really like this guy but all we do is text & he ALWAYS initiates the texting. We've hung out that one time in November & again in May of this year. He never brought up spending time with me so I finally mentioned it in March of this year & again in April & he responded with “Ya sure sometime when I’m not busy w/work.” (he works a lot) Finally last month he asked me out to dinner & a movie. We had a good time, laughed, & he flirted a bit, it was very innocent so it was really nice & we didn't do anything except hug when he dropped me off. I ...

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Helping someone cope with relationship issues


Posted Friday June 19 2009, 6:32 pm

Someone extremely close to me recently developed very, very strong feelings for someone. Now it seems apparent that nothing is going to happen between them. Now she is constantly, and I mean CONSTANTLY depressed (I live with her, so I know), just lying around and not wanting to talk with anyone. It's been going on for several weeks now, and I just do not know what to do anymore...I've tried telling her it's going to be okay and not to worry because this isn't the end of the road for her romantically, but nothing seems to help. I feel like I need to do something, but I just don't know what to do or say anymore...I can't bear seeing her like this anymore. Thoughts, anyone?

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guy problems


Posted Friday June 19 2009, 4:38 pm

My friend is 16. The guy is 18. They have been talking quiet a bit. The guy will start the conversation, but then he won't talk much. He doesn't text her back till hours later now. And she wants to figure out what to do because this is really getting to her. I told her that I think that he might be one of those guys that is not very sociable...or maybe he is just trying to drive her crazy and that she should turn the tables around and say something that will get him all worried and crazy....do you guys have any ideas of something that she could say to him? or just what you think about the situation

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dating


Posted Friday June 19 2009, 4:08 pm

is it illegal for a 16 year old to be dating an 18 year old?

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Okay my boyfriend is not supportive.


Posted Friday June 19 2009, 4:02 pm

Okay, I am 15/pregnant and I told my boyfriend that stress can cause a misscarriage and he still fights with me all the time. And I ask him what if the baby is with me (since we dont live together) and he says his first word and my boyfriend says, well i mean oh well im not going to be upset,it doesnt really matter. And then I finally see what my baby looks like (like a picture on the internet) and I tell him that the baby now has a head but no arms or legs yet and he says "ew thats nasty". I mean it's like he doesnt even care about me or the baby. What do I do?

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Posted Friday June 19 2009, 3:48 pm

i did and he wast just saying to give him time.
today after school i went to his house and his dad was outside and he said "go go go" i looked at his dad and he was saying to us "you guys are going to be making a show outside evryday noo this aint like this" he told him to tell me to go home.then he started saying that my ex sister was in there and that was bad influence.
i left and didnt even looked at my boyfriend father face. what would you have done if it was you in this position?

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slow dancing


Posted Friday June 19 2009, 1:38 pm

ok. so im super excited bc my really great guy friend who i have a crush on is going to ask me to dance at formal!! the thing is i never danced with a guy before so im kinda nervous. does anyone have any tips?

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going to friends tonight both my crushes want to hook up w. me there. HELP


Posted Friday June 19 2009, 11:15 am

Okay so ive been talking to these two guys... M and Z. I've hung out with both of them indevidually and neither of them know that im talking to the other. its not like theyre friends or anything but they know of each other. well im going to my friends tonight where the two of them are going to be there, and both of them want to hook up with me. i kinda wanna hook up with Z over M but idk what to do! sence M is going to be right there...

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Love Story


Posted Friday June 19 2009, 4:35 am

Like Taylor Swift says "I got tired of waiting, wondering if you were ever coming along...my faith in you was fading"

well anyway my question i guess is how many of you out there still have faith in love... and i guess what are some of your theories on finding it, keeping it, and losing it. feel free to rant and leave long philosophical answers... i wanna hear it

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All he does is text me


Posted Friday June 19 2009, 1:35 am

I'm 19 & I've been talking to a guy I like who is 22 since September of 2008. In November of 2008 I slept with him once, which was very stupid of me. I really like this guy but all we do is text & he ALWAYS initiates the texting. We've hung out that one time in November & again in May of this year. He never brought up spending time with me so I finally mentioned it in March of this year & again in April & responded with “Ya for sure sometime when I’m not busy w/work.” (he works a lot) Finally last month he asked me out to dinner & a movie. We had a good time, laughed, & he flirted a bit so it was really nice & we didn't do anything except hug when he dropped me off. I felt like this would be starting f...

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getting back together


Posted Thursday June 18 2009, 10:20 pm

9 months in an on and off relationship we broke up about 6 times. i broke up with him. we broke up because im a home girl stays home and reads hes a party animal and its a long distance relationship so i expect him to kall or text me once a day >.< just a little text or chat for 5 mins thats all just to know how his days going but he thinks that its gay.. and he'll just kall like once a week and it would be like 4am in morning when hes all party-ed out. and hes been sleeping over at a few girls houses. but noe he moved to my area and i see him more often he only goes out on weekends and we started having sex but we're not together and he says he loves me but i say it more then he does.. and i want to ask him to get back together or ki...

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This guy


Posted Thursday June 18 2009, 10:01 pm

14/f

So yeah I'm turning 15 soon. I like this guy. He's older than me though. He's 17. I'm friends with his sisters and everything. I think that's why I started liking him in the first place. We've gotten sorta close in being friends. I could tell him anything and could trust him. He tells me to tell him who I like. Heh, I can't exactly do that when its him. First of all, I don't want to ruin the friendship, he's going to be a senior and I don't really want to go out with him. I really like him though. Honestly, I don't want to. But I see him as a good friend. But I like him more than that.

We flirt with each other all the time. But its just little things that don't mean anything. He thinks I'm cute and everyt...

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he still loves me


Posted Thursday June 18 2009, 7:58 pm

So I dated this guy for two years. I always felt like something wasn't right. I finally broke up with him. And he isn't handling it well to say the least. I want to be his friend. And he says we can be friends, but he is still in love with me. I really care about him so i can't just cut him out of my life. we argue a lot. He is under a lot of stress at home and I feel like he needs me. His friends are all distant now and don't act in a way either of us approve of. So I'm really the only thing he has. I feel like an idiot but what do i do? He still acts like my boyfriend. He's extremely jealous even though I am not dating right now. I just have A LOT of guy friends. And I do like one of them. He gets mad when I don't answer my phone or don't...

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Is she cheating on me?


Posted Thursday June 18 2009, 7:10 pm

Okay so my girlfriend has been dating me for like 2-3 weeks now. there is 2 other guys in my part of the estate that she went out with before (call them 'r' + 'o') and 'r' is my best friend, 'o' is just a friend. so anyway 'o' dumped her on her birthday just because she wouldnt come outside, she said she had been sick.'o' isnt an affectionate or caring person, hes miserable and lazy, but never gets angry. 'r' is caring but gets angry easyy, but he is funny. anyway i know that she dosnt fancy 'r' anymore but im not sure about 'o'. he is so lazy and selfish i dont know how any girl could like him anyway, but theres somebody for everybody i suppose. anyway he asked her back out again, even though she was going out with me. she told me that she...

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Should I send this to him?


Posted Thursday June 18 2009, 3:26 pm

Hi, I wanted to tell this guy ..Joey how much I felt for him. We went threw a lot together and I just wanted to let him know how much I loved him...but we have a good friendship and everything..but he's just starting to like this other girl..and I want him to know..that he should pick me. So, here's what I wrote:

Joey, this is really hard for me to say so please just listen. I've always liked you..since 6th grade...but I never told you that. So, 7th grade year I was so happy to have been your girl friend...(even though you dumped me for Taylor) when you did..it hurt me bad, it brought back feelings from the last guy I fell for. Since I trust you..his name is..Matt Beal. :/ He's a 9th grader and he's a real jurk. I'd advise yo...

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Stupid Love.


Posted Thursday June 18 2009, 1:11 pm

is very hard to read. He tells me he really loves me and stuff but i don't know sometimes. He acts like he does love me but he doesn't want to get annoying and sticky with it. I don't know if he really does because like today he gave this girl his sweater. maybe im getting a llitle jealous but idk anymore.

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nice things to say to girlfriend


Posted Thursday June 18 2009, 3:57 am

13/m
what are some nice things to say to my girlfriend while we're just walking around town or around school just talking about random things like a poem or quote or just anything like that
thanks much appreciated

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