9 months in an on and off relationship we broke up about 6 times. i broke up with him. we broke up because im a home girl stays home and reads hes a party animal and its a long distance relationship so i expect him to kall or text me once a day >.< just a little text or chat for 5 mins thats all just to know how his days going but he thinks that its gay.. and he'll just kall like once a week and it would be like 4am in morning when hes all party-ed out. and hes been sleeping over at a few girls houses. but noe he moved to my area and i see him more often he only goes out on weekends and we started having sex but we're not together and he says he loves me but i say it more then he does.. and i want to ask him to get back together or kind of give him a sign i wanna get back together and make him pop the question what should i do? .. i dont want to have sex and stuff with him if we're not together i want him to be commited to me </3
anonymous99 answered Friday June 19 2009, 4:30 am: Sorry to say: To me it sounds like he's using you for sex and he's using the "L" word to keep you thinking he cares. Also, if he's going to "pop the question" he'll do it. You can't push someone into doing that or it'll ruin the relationship - that is if you have one and he's not using you. [ anonymous99's advice column | Ask anonymous99 A Question ]
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