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my bestfriend


Question Posted Friday June 19 2009, 11:09 pm

i'm 16 and she is 14 we're best friends and have been for a long time how do i know if she likes me?

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Cux answered Saturday June 20 2009, 12:15 pm:
My best friend Laura has a good answer to this I think will help:

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From there:

I'm going to start off by saying this: if a girl smiles A LOT when she's around you, she probably likes you as more than a friend.


The Top 5 other things to look for:
1. She laughs at your jokes.
- No matter how many times she's heard them, or how totally lame they are, she'll laugh at them. End of story.


2. She touches you (not sexually, get your head outta the gutter!)
- She plays with your hair, or fixes your shirt or something. Maybe she even holds your hand, that's a pretty good sign that she likes you.


3. She includes you in things.
- She talks to you even when she's with her friends. She makes an effort to include you, like by asking you things. Even lame questions like, 'What color should I paint my nails?' might be her way of trying to include you.


4. She makes an effort to talk to you/see you.
- She texts you just to say hello, she's late to class just because she wanted to hug you good bye, or she calls you just to see what you're doing.


5. She trusts you, and talks to you seriously.
- She tells you things that she might not normally tell others. Like, if she's in a bad mood and tells others she's fine, she'll actually tell you that she failed that geometry test, or her friends aren't including her lately. She opens up to you and isn't afraid to be herself.


Even though every girl is different, these are the top 5 things girls do when they like a guy. So, chances are, if she's holding your hand and texting you saying :" Hey whatcha up to? :)", chances are she's doing it all for a reason.




--Jack
(17/m)

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JustJessOx answered Saturday June 20 2009, 11:32 am:
Okay,well does she give you any signs to sugest that she may like you as more then a best friend?
does she flirt with you?compliment you alot seem really happy while your around?do you make her laugh etc.
you have to look and determine if there is any signs.
I cant tell you whether she likes you are not because im not around you two nor am i inside her mind.
you could ask some of her other friends does she maybe like you as something more?..
or you just do the really brave thing and ask her yourself =]
just read the signs carefully first,okay?like you wouldnt want to ruin your friendship if thats really all it was for her if you get me?
so just watch carefully see if theres any flirting etc.
good luck hope I helped,
<3
Jess [15.f]

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