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Is she cheating on me?
Okay so my girlfriend has been dating me for like 2-3 weeks now. there is 2 other guys in my part of the estate that she went out with before (call them 'r' + 'o') and 'r' is my best friend, 'o' is just a friend. so anyway 'o' dumped her on her birthday just because she wouldnt come outside, she said she had been sick.'o' isnt an affectionate or caring person, hes miserable and lazy, but never gets angry. 'r' is caring but gets angry easyy, but he is funny. anyway i know that she dosnt fancy 'r' anymore but im not sure about 'o'. he is so lazy and selfish i dont know how any girl could like him anyway, but theres somebody for everybody i suppose. anyway he asked her back out again, even though she was going out with me. she told me that she said no to him. but whenever he is out (the last 2-3 days) she acts so different than normal. when he is not here she is always hugging and cuddling me and always making eye contact and holding my hand and saying 'i love you' and laughing with me about stuff(i treat her as nice as i can). when he is here she sorta ignores me alot, refuses to hug, shes suddenly really nice to him and not me, she went to the shop with him and her little sister alone, and me and 'r' went outside just as they were leaving. she said 'i'll cya when we get back' and she gave me some sweets that she had in her pocket (i asked for a hug too and she gave me a small one :[ ) when she got back one of my friends from a different part of the estate was around with me. 'r' had walked with 'o' and 'd' halfway to the shop, cuz he had to go home at that time(his house is halfway to the shop). when he was leaving his house again 'd' and 'o' and 'd's little sister were coming back at that exact time, so he walk round with them. when my gf ('d') got back and seen me i said hi and she said it back, but then her and 'o' just walked in to their own house ('d' went into hers and 'o' went into his) she had to in anyway cuz her mother said thats the time she had to be in for.i was really annoyed at her and i thought that this relationship was ended between us.. but when i was outside i looked up at her window and she was sitting there staring at me, when i looked up she kept looking back. then i waved and so did she. then i turned around for like 2 seconds and i looked again and she was gone. about 5 mins later she came back, but didnt look at me much, she was looking at the ground mostly(i could see her perfectly). about 20 mins later when me and 'r' were coming in to my house she text me asking for me to call her. she text from her sisters phone because she has no credit. her sister is only 11. her sister then called me and i told her i had no credit, and to go to the back window and i'll be in my backgarden (me and 'd' live right next to each other). so i told 'r' to wait for me out the front, because 'd' might want to talk privatly. but when i got there her sister was there too and she didnt talk about 'o' at all, she just talked casually. i just stared at the ground while she talked, but i felt bad, so i then started talking too. she then left to have a bath, and came back to the window after it to talk. she talked for 5-10 mins then left because she said she was tired ('r' was in the back with me now). her sister text me later on that night saying 'can you go to the window' 'r' had gone home now.so i went and 'd' wasnt there but she knew her sister was there talking to me. her sister said that 'd' was doing something on her laptop (she has no internet though) and then she said to me' 'd' wants to know what your middle name is' so i told her. the day before this she gave me the biggest hugs ever and like let me kiss her cheek and stuff (lol).anyway, a few days ago she said she loved me and made me a love card. she gave me a love wristband and i gave her one. she said she loves me so much more than she ever loved 'o' or 'r' or anybody else. she never hugged 'o' when she dated him (3 months) she hugged 'r' a big though but not like the way she hugs me :P(she never gave them bands or cards or anything either). . anyway im really in love with her but i'm really confused. what should i do? id really appreciate your help =]
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In a way it kinda seems like something else is going on. But then sometimes it doesn't. You need to talk to her and see whats going on. We can't see what she is doing so I can't tell if she is for sure, or not. But if she is going off with that guy, chances are something isn't good. Talk to her, sit down and have a talk with her. Good luck!
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sorry to tell you but something is defenitly going on. i think you should have a talk to her and explain to her how you are feeling. and see how she responds to you.
~Alluring Arnissia ~
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