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what to talk about


Posted Tuesday July 28 2009, 6:02 am

at night its so hard to keep conversation go'n ....and i be so nervous because i dont want him to say imma call you back or "say somethingg!!"
i think about him all day , but as soon as we get on the phone, we would talk for 5 mins strong then its dead silence...... (he's 3 years older than me too)im 19 he's 22{that can smtimes be intimidating

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Posted Tuesday July 28 2009, 6:02 am

theres this kid i like and he likes me but hes going out with my friend and before that he went out with my other friend. im not sure on what to do because i really like him and likes me, but i dont wanna hurt my friend. this girl is one of my best friends and i dont wanna hurt her if i ever went out with him. now i have a bf but i dont like him and he was one of my good friends and stuff and i wouldve felt bad if i said no to him so i said yeah but i feel huilty making him think i like him (we just started going out today). so now its like one big love square. to make matters worse im still getting over my last relationship which i have no idea why i ended it because i was in love with the kid. but im really mad at my x cause everything i ...

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confused about him


Posted Tuesday July 28 2009, 6:02 am

my boyfriend and i have been going out for almost a year. we're both 15. recently he's told me that he likes other girls, but would never cheat. he says he only likes them based on looks and anytime he sees them, he always compares them to me in the back of his mind and they always lose. but when i found out about this, i was upset. i feel uncomfortable that he likes other girls besides for me. is that selfish? he loves me and i love him but i don't want other girls to be on his mind. it hurts...should i try to be ok with him liking other girls or should i break up with him? i mean, people can't help who they like, right?

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HELP


Posted Tuesday July 28 2009, 6:01 am

i was in a relationship with this guy.evrythin was goin well suddenly for 2 days they were misunderstandings n fights n he was like its better v break up.n well yea so v did.but i still love him.i want him back.he doesnt have feelings for me thts wat he told my friend what shud i do.i wnna b his gud frd n den i wnt him to ask me out again

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too much?


Posted Tuesday July 28 2009, 5:59 am

okay im 13 and i kinda like this boy, and he
says hes likes me. he even asked me to the movies
he tells me hes gonna call me, but doesnt, do i text
him to try to start a convo or does it seem like he
doesnt like me idk?

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i cant tell if the guy i like likes me or if he likes my fri


Posted Tuesday July 28 2009, 5:58 am

13 female...ok soo i like this guy and we talk and stuff and we hav been friends since like october. i think he used to like my friend but i dont think he does now. but i dont know. he gives me little things to think about and he has called me befor and if we are at a b-ball game ill look over and he may be looking at me!! Q- how can i tell or find out if he likes me?? and how do i show him that i like him a little but not coming on to strong or making him not want to talk to me???
HELP THANX

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this sucks


Posted Tuesday July 28 2009, 5:57 am

okay. so like a month ago, me and my best friend kind of got in a fight. me and her ex boyfriend were pretty good friends before they even started going out, but anyway..

my friends ex broke up with her and would call me every night talking about it - and id just listen, but in the process, i kinda started liking him. one night, he came out and told me that he liked me.. and i was like i like you too.. so he told my friend. she got shitty. and i tried not to hang out with him, but i did.. and regret it. i told her i was sorry and i know that i fucked up. but we're cool now. and i dont even talk to that guy anymore. it lasted like 2 days.

so now, my problem is that i like this other guy now. and she has been fli...

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on edge of a breakdown


Posted Tuesday July 28 2009, 3:57 am

Like many others I am in a relationship and going to college in less than a month. He'll be near Phillidelphia, PA and I'll be near Providence, RI. About a 5 hour drive, and we've decided that breaking up isn't an option and we're in this for the long haul. His program will be somewhere between 9 months to a year and a half so its a shorter time than most people but I'm starting to get seriously depressed about leaving him. I'm really excited about living on my own and the whole college experience but the thought of us being so far apart is killing me. I get a horrible sinking feeling in my chest and I'm always on the edge of tears. Even if we're just saying goodbye for the night I don't want to let him go because I know our time is limited...

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unsure about his attitude


Posted Tuesday July 28 2009, 1:26 am

hi, i am years old and i have been dating this guy for almost 2 yrs. i am his 1st girlfriend and he is my 1st boyfriend.well lately he has been acting preety wierd.

first, he gets these random texts any time of the night/morning from girls from his job. well on one particualr day, some girl text him "where you at?" and his reponse was "waiting for my friend" then i told him,how come you couldnt tell her you at my house. then his excuse was "jake called me 5 min ago, and he is coming over so i can bring him somewhere"he finally seen how frustrated i was, and told her he at his girls house. at that point, i didnt car.

then again, like 9 days after, i was playing on his cell phone. th...

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would you consider this your perfect girl?


Posted Tuesday July 28 2009, 12:59 am

nice, intelligent, loves sex, and has a good body?

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How do I stop crushing on my teacher?


Posted Tuesday July 28 2009, 12:43 am

I had this young, beautiful, really nice teacher now all of a sudden I can't stop thinking about her, I walk by her room just to get a glimpse of her. I keep thinking she hates me, even though there's no proof of that, and I keep thinking she'll completely forget me and I made a fool of myself in my class even though I really didn't. I also find myself staring at her yearbook picture constantly and I feel miserable all the time. How do I get over it this ridiculous infatuation? Is it normal?
I already know a teacher is out of my league so don't worry about that. Don't tell me I need to get over it I already know that I just don't know how?
Give me serious answer please. Not bullsh*t answers

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What are some fun, cheap things to do with your boyfriend?


Posted Tuesday July 28 2009, 12:02 am

My boyfriend and I are pretty low on money. We haven't done much this summer and I thought it might be nice to make a date weekend with him or something. The only problem is the money! I was hoping that somebody has some neat ideas for activities we could do together? You know, to like, bring us closer together and have fun. Thanks!

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boys


Posted Monday July 27 2009, 10:48 pm

i like this boy and he likes me and he said we would go out if i sent him a pic txt of my boobs or me naked wat should ido please help

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I feel so guilty.


Posted Monday July 27 2009, 10:31 pm

16/f

I know this is long, but I feel so miserable about this. And please don't answer unless you read the whole thing. I'll know if you didn't read the whole thing.

My best friend in the whole entire world is a guy. I love him to death and we've been friends since freshman year. (I'm a junior now).
He's had a steady girlfriend for almost a year now, and I've had like on and off boyfriends since 9th grade.
We're so close and he's always been there for me like giving me advice about things when I'm stuck and I listen to him when he's having a problem. And I know this sounds really cliche, but he really gets me. And no, I mean he REALLY understands me. He's the person who calls me out when I'm being ...

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Not Sure What To Do.


Posted Monday July 27 2009, 10:19 pm

16/f
Okay, well me and my ex boyfriend still talk. We text eachother and we still want to be friends even though we arent dating. We broke up about 2 and a half months ago. He was the only real boyfriend that i cared so much for. My first love, i guess you could say. Well now that we are friends, there is atill a feeling inside me that hopes he dosen't get another girlfriend soon or until im completely moved on and over him. He still tells me he loves me and calls me babe, and hun and he says all this a lot. The truth is, sometimes, i like to hear that because it makes me happy still. But, we are just friends, and to see if we are really meant to be, maybe he shouldnt be telling me this? Im not sure. I know i get happy when he tells ...

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Guys can be so unpredictable


Posted Monday July 27 2009, 10:11 pm

13/f

okkay so ive had a boyfriend for about 2 years now and im starting to think hes the one. Except for the fact that he will randomly ignore all my phone calls and everything for like a week and then blame me for not calling or asking to hang out. and everything good that happens and i try to tell him and all he sayd is yeah whatever. I feel like we arnt as close as we once where. I try and ask him if he is okay but everytime i do he hangs up or walk's away.should i end this so i dont get hurt more than i already am? help me please i have no idea what to do anymore

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Can't be together right now


Posted Monday July 27 2009, 7:37 pm

My boyfriend and I can't be together at the moment for many reasons. The situation won't change for sure until 2 years from now, when I'll be 18. We both love eachother though. I don't know what I should do until then. I don't want to date anyone because I still love him so much. And even if I didn't, it's much too complicated for me to date anyone right now. Should I try to get over him though? I don't want to, but is that healthy? Or should I just continue with my life with him in my heart? I don't know if this makes sense. I know I can't control what I feel, but I can TRY to get over him. I don't think I want to though. Thanks.

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boyfriend freaks out, what can i do?


Posted Monday July 27 2009, 6:34 pm

My boyfriend and i have been dating 9 months, we dated for 4 months about 2 years ago and then got back together. We only have problems when my boyfriend has these little "freak outs" he keeps everything inside until he just randomly ut of know where freaks out and goes off the wall, its horrible he always directs it at me, he would NEVER hit me or anything like that but he has put holes in the wall and he calls me names and stuff his last one was over the weekend and they usually last about an hour and then he brakes down and starts crying and says how he loves me more than anything and i don't deserve this and i can tell he really is sorry. He had a horrible child hood and life, he's 19 and his whole life has been horrible he h...

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young and heartbroken


Posted Monday July 27 2009, 5:48 pm

i'm a 15 year old girl and never in my life have i been so so sad. i went to camp for about 10 days and i met someone that i really really really like. i live in a place 10 hours a plane ride away from him, and because i'm young, i can't just decide when i go and visit him.

the next time i'll probably see him is in probably like half a year to a year and it hurts me so much to think about the fact that i like him - so much that i got over a guy ive liked for a year. and im so so scared that he'll get over me - and i'm pretty sure he will. and i don't even know if he really likes me.

and hes a musician and he said he would write a song for me - and i'm scared once that song comes (if it ever does), i'll fall fo...

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majorly sucks =/.


Posted Monday July 27 2009, 12:08 pm

i miss him like crazy. one of my really good friends, just moved far away for a while, and he doesnt know when he's coming back. yea, we did have a thing, no, we weren't dating. i've liked him a lot for a while now, and at one point i was sure that he liked me, now idk. and he's not the type of person who just comes out and says it. he moved for a reason, and im glad he went for those reason, but i miss him so much. i keep thinking about the day he left, the memories before hand, and not knowing when i'll be able to see him again doesnt help. and then i think what terrifys me, is that he'll find someone, and that someone, won't be me. i can't tell him this, because if i do, it just makes everything worse, and everything harder, and its not ...

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