I had this young, beautiful, really nice teacher now all of a sudden I can't stop thinking about her, I walk by her room just to get a glimpse of her. I keep thinking she hates me, even though there's no proof of that, and I keep thinking she'll completely forget me and I made a fool of myself in my class even though I really didn't. I also find myself staring at her yearbook picture constantly and I feel miserable all the time. How do I get over it this ridiculous infatuation? Is it normal?
I already know a teacher is out of my league so don't worry about that. Don't tell me I need to get over it I already know that I just don't know how?
Give me serious answer please. Not bullsh*t answers
PunkieFreak4690 answered Tuesday July 28 2009, 3:38 am: Everyone goes through this phase. I know I did back in high school. I was obsessed with my German teacher for two years. He was so cute, I kind of always flirted with him, and he had a Myspace at the time so I added him, and always went through his pictures. I knew I had no chance with him but he was just so handsome and nice to me.
After awhile, my obsession started to wear off. He was talking about dating other women, and that turned me off a little. What mainly did, was later on, when students made rumors that he was gay. It was never confirmed, but I ended up going on dates with guys my age, and my obsessive liking of him ceased.
To this day though, I still find him a little cute, but not enough to go see him every day. I'd try to date someone your age, and try not to see your teacher as much. It always wears off sooner or later. And I wouldn't tell you to get over it because it's normal and it happens to everyone. It's like everything else in life -- you go through it, and you learn from it.
Go ahead, and visit her when needed, then gradually decrease visits. Just try hanging with people of your age, and who you enjoy being with. The teacher crush will wear off soon. Just don't even worry about it. [ PunkieFreak4690's advice column | Ask PunkieFreak4690 A Question ]
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