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this sucks
okay. so like a month ago, me and my best friend kind of got in a fight. me and her ex boyfriend were pretty good friends before they even started going out, but anyway..
my friends ex broke up with her and would call me every night talking about it - and id just listen, but in the process, i kinda started liking him. one night, he came out and told me that he liked me.. and i was like i like you too.. so he told my friend. she got shitty. and i tried not to hang out with him, but i did.. and regret it. i told her i was sorry and i know that i fucked up. but we're cool now. and i dont even talk to that guy anymore. it lasted like 2 days.
so now, my problem is that i like this other guy now. and she has been flirting with him like crazy! shes a flirty person, and it doesnt seem like shes doing it on purpose, but its making me mad. i dont wanna tell her because shell freak out and say its bullshit that i would think that about her. i like this guy alot, and i dont want her in the way - even though i kinda deserve it : (
what do i do????
sorry its so long..
thanks ♥
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Ok,here's the thing about boys you like and your good friends...NEVER mix the two.Trust,i have been there before and its not a good thing. Call me crazy but isnt it funny how when you tell a friend about the boy you like,he and she start to chat more and hang more? Well,every girl is entitled to a secret or just something for her self.We all have friends but now it's hard to tell who's a friend and who is just into themselves and want everything for their self as well.Honesty is the best thing in the world.Never bottle things inside of you sweetie. Real friends respect your opinions and feelings. Real friends wouldnt yell or curse or throw fits because it's a childish thing and not cute. So try something for me..txt,call,or even write a letter to this dude that you like and let him know how you feel becuase 9 out of 10, he may feel the exact same way about you.As for your friend,do the exact same thing.It may be scary but just know that your real friend will listen.If she gets angry or upset,let her know that real friends don't do that and it's not cool. In life we all need to learn to do things that we are afraid of to make us stronger. Have the courage to change things in your life.It may suck to lose a friend, but if it comes to that then just know that it wasnt meant for you guys to be friends. One of my old friends sound just like your friend and we parted ways for the exact same reason. It's not good to have negative people in your life or bad influence's and sometimes you have to let things go to be a better person.hope i helped and if you need any more advice,just ask anytime.Thanks for listening,~ladypink~
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I'd ask her in a casual way what kind of relationship she has with this guy. Like 'hey what's goin on with you and ___' if she says she likes him then obviously back off if she says she doesn't well then you can go for it but just remember that your best friend flirts with this guy weather she knows it or not so even if you got close and went out...your friend might still flirt with him because she 'doesn't know' she's doing it.
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