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young and heartbroken
i'm a 15 year old girl and never in my life have i been so so sad. i went to camp for about 10 days and i met someone that i really really really like. i live in a place 10 hours a plane ride away from him, and because i'm young, i can't just decide when i go and visit him.
the next time i'll probably see him is in probably like half a year to a year and it hurts me so much to think about the fact that i like him - so much that i got over a guy ive liked for a year. and im so so scared that he'll get over me - and i'm pretty sure he will. and i don't even know if he really likes me.
and hes a musician and he said he would write a song for me - and i'm scared once that song comes (if it ever does), i'll fall for him all over again and its gonna hurt me so bad.
i've never been so sad and heartbroken and it kills me all the time. i really don't know what to do.
some people will probably say back off from him but i'm scared because i kinda wanna keep in contact with him so that we can still be friends - or even more. i know its extremely unrealistic to have a long distance relationship beacuse that would be very very hard. i really like him.
what should i do?
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While I think you should move on with liking him, who in the world said long distance relationships don't work? I'd like to meet them!
My boyfriend (who I've been with for a year) were long distance for the first 7 months of our relationship. I then moved out of my house the day after I turned 18 to move in with him, and I've been in California ever since. Long distance relationships most certainly CAN work, but you just need to trust the other and have a good bond of communication.
If you'd like to keep in touch with him, why not ask for his MySpace, Facebook or phone number? Establish a relationship with him and see where things take you. Just remember that lots of relationships don't last but just because that's so, doesn't mean you shouldn't pursue them. Who knows? He could become your boyfriend & maybe even your first love! :)
Don't be so pessimistic and assume the worst. Chances are you'll make a great new friend. Don't be shy, just ask.
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Hun, I'm not going to lie to you but you should probably try and move on. A 10 hour plane ride is a long way. As from where I live a 10 hour plane ride is almost across the country if not so than further out. I know you really like him, but you will get over this. This guy is a crush, he is not forever. The guy says he is a musician but the truth is he might already have a girlfriend and if he doesn't I'm sure he isn't going to dwell over a girl who lives so far away. From exsperience long distant relationships are VERY hard to maintain not only is it very hard to go and see the person but it cost a lot of money to travel and a long distant relationship is almost never truely faithful and in the long run most people end up going there seperate ways.
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