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Not Sure What To Do.
16/f
Okay, well me and my ex boyfriend still talk. We text eachother and we still want to be friends even though we arent dating. We broke up about 2 and a half months ago. He was the only real boyfriend that i cared so much for. My first love, i guess you could say. Well now that we are friends, there is atill a feeling inside me that hopes he dosen't get another girlfriend soon or until im completely moved on and over him. He still tells me he loves me and calls me babe, and hun and he says all this a lot. The truth is, sometimes, i like to hear that because it makes me happy still. But, we are just friends, and to see if we are really meant to be, maybe he shouldnt be telling me this? Im not sure. I know i get happy when he tells me these things but should i tell him to stop because its the right thing to do? I want to see if we will come back to eachother and see if its meant to be the natural way. I dont want to make that happen.
So, what should i do? Even though, deep down, i get kind of happy when he tells me that, and dont want him dating another girl, or should i tell him to stop because its better to see if its meant to be? I think im getting attached when he says these things and will make it harder for me to like another guy. Im not sure. Help!
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Okay my name is jessica and i am 15 years old, so don't judge my answer by my bad spelling or my age please +} i think that you should embrace what he tells you and start doing it back if you really want him back try. but don't be all up front about it just in case he dose not feel the same because he might get all ocward about it. but hay you know him better than i do so i am not sure if being up front is the way to go, but if you still like him don't push him away by telling him to stop calling you nice names. if he is telling you these things still there might be a chance he likes you still to. hope any thing i might have said helped if you have any other questions you can ask me at chick_flicked13@hotmail.com either at my hotmail or myspace. +}
-Jessica Dawn
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It sounds like I wrote this question. I'm going through the same thing right now. First real boyfriend. First love. We broke up but I know we both still have feelings for eachother. It's hard to be friends with someone you see as more than a friend because you are always expecting more. You are constantly waiting, wondering if maybe something will change.
You should consider this: Who broke up with who? Why did the break up happen? Is it something that you would both be able to change and both want to change? If it isn't something that can be changed then you have to understand that it is really over. However if there is hope, then maybe you can talk to your ex about it and see how he feels.
If nothing is going to change then you should tell him not to say these things because you want to move on. The more you distance yourself from him (as much as it will hurt you) the easier it'll be for you to move on. I hope I helped. Good luck. <3
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