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I am 26 now and didn't lose my virginity until I was 23 years old. I lost my virginity to a stripper from a nightclub I had been visiting. Since then I have been to 4 different female escort services though. I used condoms every time I went to an escort and we did have full penetration sex, but with the first girl I did not use a condom (I didn't really expect it to happen).
I have also received oral sex without a condom on and have given oral sex without barrier protection. These were also from the escort girls though. I think the escort services probably STD tested their girls on a fairly regular basis though, right?
I later had sex with a girl that was about 35 years old. We both got drunk at a party and their was no condom used. We engaged in full penetrative sex and oral sex. There is a high probability that she has been with many, many people because of her overall demeanor, but I don't know her from anyone and I couldn't tell you anything more about her to save my life.
About a year ago I took a trip to Las Vegas. I have low self esteem but was wanting to have sex so I actually picked up a couple prostitutes while I was in town. I am pretty sure that the second one I picked up was on some sort of drug because she was extremely eager to get her money and the others weren't as jumpy and strange.
I'm guessing that I probably have something, but not sure what. I was to afraid to get tested because I know that if I was positive for HIV or AIDS my life would be useless. I have a very nice job that pays well and I have no idea how I've stayed out of the drug scene. I am almost afraid that finding out I have an STD will push me to drugs because I will have to stop paying for sex. I could never get girlfriends so I turned to whores, I guess. I know that I was playing Russian Roulette every time I slept with these girls, but I felt I had no choice since I am unattractive, boring, have no sense of humor, etc.
1. What are the chances that I actually have HIV?
2. What are the chances that I have at least some type of STD?
3. What are the chances of have an incurable STD like Herpes? (link)
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okay it looks like you have SOMETHING?? you should go and get tested because if you don't your condition what ever that might be may get worse. Try to go to places if you are clean and ask the owner if the girls that he is "selling" are clean or not and if they get tested or just get a blow up doll they work too +}
hope what i have told you helps in any way good luck
Jessica Dawn
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14/f
My boyfriend and I were screwing around and I hate to be graphic but we were basically dry humping with just me underwear on.(sort of the this string type) Other than that we were both pretty much as nature intended and I was wondering if there's a chance that something could have maybe slipped a little and gotten me pregnant. There was no penatration but we were touching skin every once and a while so I'm not sure. I'm really freaking out because I'm worried that something might have gotten in there while we were being rough and yes, so please if you could tell me if there's a chance I could have gotten pregnant. I've missed my period by A LOT and am very worried. I'd appreciate any advice or info on this very much. thank you. (link)
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okay you have to know if his you know what sliped in or not and no i am niot talking about cum well i sort of am talking abiotu both i guss because you would have to feel it. one way or another but if his dick did not go in then there might be another reason that you are missing your period there could be a chance that he had an std and that is affecting your period or you are just a lil late because at your yong age missed periods can be common. +} hope i helped +}
-Jessica Dawn
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So my boyfriend and I had so ruff sex 2 days ago and nethier of us have anything but now it stings to pee and you can see where i am a little ripped.
how long will it take for this to heal and is there anything I can do to make it stop hurting? (link)
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Just give it about three days and it should go away or stop hurting if this hurting lasts mkore than a week think about getting it checked out but it sounds like it is nothing so chill and give your self a break you are fine +} hope i helped
-Jessica Dawn
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so!!!!I like this guy but the thing is that Im chubby and I like him !!!!I was playing him and then we end up kissing him because my friend bump us together Im not sure if he likes me because thir are many other girls and the problem is that Im 3 yrs younger than him and playing around before the kiss he called me ''little girl'' WAT SHOULD I DO!!!! SINCERELY ''short'' (link)
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he was prolly just messin with you it is okay i mean look just play it cool and don't "play around with him" FLIRT!!! and i know in a way that is what you are trying to say about it but not as much in a fun way but more of a sexy way like when your eyes meet make a sly smile and look away make him want you!!! you could also try lil things like biting your bottom lip on one side and slowly letting it go when he looks at you. and if you are chubby don't wear a hole bunch of sweaters and shit like that to cover it up and dont wear skin tight things that show to much skin, you can wear long tightish shirts that show off your boobs so he is distracted from the rest of you but dont make it to sluty and a nice lil sweater and a pare of jeans and you are prawd! good luck!!!! and if you have any more questions or questions on what i jsut told you, you can e-mail me at chick_flicked13@hotmail.com
-Jessica Dawn +}
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i need new ways to jack off. what are new ways to jack off. (link)
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why jack off why not just have sex with a guy or girl? oh and if you are a guy try a blow up doll if not VIBRATOR!!! +}
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iv beign with my boyfriend for nearly a year now and we've just started doing handjobs and finguring and having sex. he said to me that im the only girl he's beign with that dont shave their vagina, so i got really paranoid and shaved it, now it stings and itch's and has red spots on it. but my mate told me to use shaving foam because i used soap last time. what do i do? coz i dont like the way it looks but my boyfriend does. (link)
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Dont shave!!!!!!! i think women look great just the way they are now i anit no freak i shave my legs and shit like that but when it comes to down there when the hair grows back it will always itch and so i have been just trimin' like clipping some off or waxing is nice too. but yeah waxing don't burn and itching wont come for a longer period of time because it was takin out from the root and the hair takes longer to grow. anothing this you can do is wax part of it so it looks good and trim the rest +}
if you want to ask me any thing else you can e-mail me at chick_flicked13@hotmail.com
-Jessica Dawn
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Ok, so I'm in 6th grade. I'm a girl. I just got my first boyfriend and I like him a lot. I kiss him a lot and he seems to enjoy it and everything, but I'm totally scared that if I frenched him (my first time and his) I would be really bad. I know guys care about how good their girlfriend kisses and it's really awkward whenever he tries and I just break into it and say "Let's not rush into that yet" and he completely respects it, but is still wanting to. How do I break the fear? Does it just come naturally when you're ready or what? (link)
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all i have to say is use your whole tong and not just part of it in and out in dipping motion and dont put your lips over his right on his the rest should come natural. and you dont need to rush its okay +} if you have any more questions you would like to ask you can e-mail me at chick_flicked13@hotmail.com be safe have fun and hope i helped you out +}
-Jessica Dawn
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both 15.
i'm a girl
so i spent a lot of time this summer in a different city 4 hours away from where i live. with my other family and i met this wonderful boy and i liked him even though he liked my cousin (whos 13) and she kissed him twice and then a while passed and he REALLY liked her but he finally got over it and she told him how i liked him and then he asked me out but we both decided it wasnt a good idea cuz neither of us wanted a long distance relationship. so then we still talked on the phone everyday and hung out at the pool and park together with some other people. then theres this other girl thats 13 and she reallyyyy likes him. she denies it but everyone knows she does. and shes such a bitch we reallyyy dont like each other. and then the day before i left to go home me and him met up at a park and we sat on this bench and he kissed me(: three times (my first kiss and my first boyfriend). and then he asked me if i wanted to try a long distance relationship and i said i do if you want to and he said ya. so basically when i was up there for a month and a half we talked everyday and when i got home we talked like twice in two weeks and he never calls me anymore cuz he says his phone got turned off or hes grounded. like he called me back the next day and was like you called and i was like ya and he goes okay... what did you want and i was like uh to talk to you because i haven't talked to you and he said he was grounded for seven days well about the third day that 13 yr old bitch calls me out of know where to let me know that my boyfriend was coming over to her house. and oh man that tore me up because he was "grounded" so i called to tell him what i had heard and he said he went there to work on her big brothers motercycle and i was like ya okay and then i was like welli thought you were grounded and then he said he got ungrounded that day but he didnt call me and that messed up. so i really think i should break up with him and so do my friends because they think hes lying to me. but i never get to talk to him to be able to break up with him so i dont know what to do! i mean i have guys down here coming at me left and right and flirting with me and asking me if i have a bf and im like well ya kinda sorta its complicated.
SO UGH my bf is just holding me back
like i talked to him for two minutes last week and i was like call me tonight because i really need to talk to you and he didnt
so this is comeplete bullshit.
and i need to break up with him
but i need your help
what do you think about this?
advice?
opinions?
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okay just end it next time you talk to him make it the first thing that comes out of your moth besides hello is dadadada there. and if he tries to say but why i want you, i think its a go or no go that is up to you but one of the best advice i ever had was if he wants you he wants you guys are really easey to understand if you think about you if he cared enough to call he would even if he was in trouble he would at least try face fact he dose NOT want you as far as i see or lol. read +} but really he want s you he wants you if he doesn't he doesn't you see when a guy wants some to go down he will make sure it happens unless he is shy. but your guy dose not sound shy. so that dose not have to mean he is cheating on you because there is a good thing that he is not but just that he dose not want you any more because it is not up front. it is like a basket ball game if all you are doing is sitting on the side lines and not really playing you don't really want to be there if you are a baller but you still want to know who wins and if you are in the game if you really want to win you go for it no matter what. but he dose not rally want you because he is on the side lines and not playing and if he is or dose get to play ( play like talk to you or some thing) he does not want to win because it is a pointless game. if you did not understand this fully or have any other questions you can e-mail me at chick_flicked13@hotmail.com
-Jessica Dawn
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15/f
bob=15
so theres this guy lets call him bob well i met bob at this place and he gave me his number. i was head over heels for him but then we stopped talking and then started talking on and off. it took me forever to get over him even though we never went out. i've known hom for nine months now. well one night he texted me a fwd (which he NEVER does) one of those forwards call bang me or pass.
and this is how the conversation went:
(the bang me or pass fwd)
me: wow really?
him: cha!
me: i'm not gonna answer that
him: why not
me: ha i dont know.
him: pleasee
(he begged for me to answer that for like 20 minutes)
he then tells me how he likes my friend
(and she has a boyfriend)
it was weird because the next day me and her were hanging out and he invited us to his pool but we couldnt so she invited him to her pool but he couldn't
(thank god because i would have fainted)
(then i finally worked up the nerve to do this)
(which i have NEVER done before)
me: i used to like you.
him: ok i knew that
me: HOW
him: i'm physic
me: ha ya okay
him: no i'm serious think of something and i'll tell you
him: your thinking im not gonna be able to guess what your thinking
me: no i was actually thinking of football
him: ya right
me: i'm serious! but really how did u know
him: idk some how i figure stuff out, i knew for a long time, its not that hard.
me: oh...
him: ya and i think you liked me right when you saw me for the first time
(woah baby was he right)
(smart boyyy:)
me: well your right. but do you still think i like you?
him: yes.
me: well do you think i should still like you
(or something like that)
him: its your choice
me: but i want your opinion
him: my opinion is that you should follow your instinks and/or heart
(AWWW ISN'T THAT SWEET?!)
(and then it was late so we said goodnight)
SOOOOO WHAT DO YOU THINK?!?!?!
I REALLY DONT KNOW IF I SHOULD LIKE HIM AGAIN
I MEAN I KINDA DO BUT IT TOOK ME FOREVER TO GET OVER HIM AND I DONT WANNA DO THAT AGAIN.
SOO WHAT SHOULD I DO?!
I WANT HIM TO LIKE ME INSTEAD OF MY FRIEND!!
UGH, HELP?
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i think you really do like him and the way it sounds you really like him. i think he was trying to give you a hint, most guys don't want to make choices for women and think when they say its you choice that it is kinda like saying you want me have me if not okay. but don't go all freaky and be all over him next time you see him just play it cool and trow in some sly word play some along the lines of what if i already mad up my choice but i am just waiting for you to make yours like in a non up front way of saying do you want me too? or like if he looks at you from across the room make eye contact for a while make a sly smile and look away. but what ever you do DO NOT hate on your friend for him liking her either that is liek one of the biggest NO NO's ever!!! hope i helped if you want to ask me any more questions you can e-mail me at chick_flicked13@hotmail.com
-Jessica Dawn
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We're talking and he liked me.
After a while,he decided he just liked me as a friend but i still like him more than a friend.
We have the same group of friends,so we are going to end up being around each other.
I really want him to like me again in the future after things and tension settle down.
Should I try avoiding those times when he's with my friends and not see him as much and keep distance for a while?
Should I keep a close friendship? I need help! (link)
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HI, my name is Jessica and i am fifteen but don't judge my answer by that. i think that you should try and do a little of both... now before you go all that is crazy on me just listen, try and distance your self form him yes but when you are around him have fun!! like talk with him make him laugh and make him like your lil buddy but try to do it in a flirty way so he could take the hint, then distance your self from him and hang out with a different crowd for a while and keep doing that so he might want to be around you more and miss you while your gone. now this might sound very far fetched and all but try it i was in a similar well i am in a similar sitch and am actually trying this out myself right now and so far so good +} so yeah hope i helped you out in any way if you didn't quite understand this or would like to ask another question you can e-mail me at chick_flicked13@hotmail.com either on my myspace or the hotmail +}
-Jessica Dawn
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ok, I am 14 years old and have liked this guy for over a year. We have really become close and he has told me that he is crazy about me that I have no clue how he really likess me., he flirts with me and wants to be my first kiss.and has been over my house several times. He told me the other night that his friend erin which is a girl that tries to control every move he makes and tells him who to date etc... well she does not like me it just happened one day. I used to confide in her about him and she just decided one day she didnt like me. anyways she told him not to ever date me or fall for me. i know so much about him he has had sex and a lot of experience with girls.I want let him touch me in those places. But he says he respects me. he has confused me because just yesterday he gave me this bigg flirtatious hug and then that night told me on myspace that he was fixin to get a girlfriend. which has hurt me. what can i do and what shoudld i do? i think he want go out with me because of erin. oh yeah and he had tried a long time ago to fix me up with his best friend. well i told his best friend nicely that i didnt like him. his best friends mom told him not to ever date me or hurt his best friend. please help me find what to do. i really think he likes me but i dont know. (link)
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okay i am sorry hun but i have to be very honest with you, but if he really liked you it would not matter what other people say. but also that does not mean that he is going to jump on it or any thing but in time no one should be able to change his feelings. and did you ever think that maybe erin likes him? if she is not related to him in any way and out of the blue says she dose not like you that most likely means that she knew that he liked you back either by him, him self or one of his close friends. and after she herd she got "the green eye" or how ever that saying goes? but you understand what i am saying? if not you can always e-mail me at chick_flicked13@hotmail.com either on my myspace or my hotmail my name is Jessica and i am 15 years old, hope any thing i might have said helped +}
-Jessica Dawn
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Okay, well me and my ex boyfriend still talk. We text eachother and we still want to be friends even though we arent dating. We broke up about 2 and a half months ago. He was the only real boyfriend that i cared so much for. My first love, i guess you could say. Well now that we are friends, there is atill a feeling inside me that hopes he dosen't get another girlfriend soon or until im completely moved on and over him. He still tells me he loves me and calls me babe, and hun and he says all this a lot. The truth is, sometimes, i like to hear that because it makes me happy still. But, we are just friends, and to see if we are really meant to be, maybe he shouldnt be telling me this? Im not sure. I know i get happy when he tells me these things but should i tell him to stop because its the right thing to do? I want to see if we will come back to eachother and see if its meant to be the natural way. I dont want to make that happen.
So, what should i do? Even though, deep down, i get kind of happy when he tells me that, and dont want him dating another girl, or should i tell him to stop because its better to see if its meant to be? I think im getting attached when he says these things and will make it harder for me to like another guy. Im not sure. Help! (link)
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Okay my name is jessica and i am 15 years old, so don't judge my answer by my bad spelling or my age please +} i think that you should embrace what he tells you and start doing it back if you really want him back try. but don't be all up front about it just in case he dose not feel the same because he might get all ocward about it. but hay you know him better than i do so i am not sure if being up front is the way to go, but if you still like him don't push him away by telling him to stop calling you nice names. if he is telling you these things still there might be a chance he likes you still to. hope any thing i might have said helped if you have any other questions you can ask me at chick_flicked13@hotmail.com either at my hotmail or myspace. +}
-Jessica Dawn
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Okay,so im going to sum up my story into short.
There's this guy that I was "talking" to for about 6 weeks,i liked him alot and he liked me.
He started hanging out with me everyday ,along with my group of friends as well. He then told me he just wanted to be friends ,he didnt have a reason and he claims i didnt do anything wrong.He also at one point liked my best friend and she kinda liked him too. So at that point,we all just agreed that our friendships were more important and that all three of us would be friends.After this agreement,I had a little party and whatnot and got a little drunk and me and my best friend both ended up hooking up with him .I was all over him all night and I wouldn't leave him alone.(which was stupid)The next day,he calls me and tells me that his parents found out about the little party that was at my house and got in trouble and isnt allowed to use his car and whatnot and he told me that he was really annoyed with me that night and he again said that he was going to be friends with me and my best friend and nothing more. Well,recently he has been talking to my best friend more and asking her to hangout "as friends" but he hasn't even talked to me at all or responded to any of my messages.Tonight we are all going to my friends goodbye dinner and he's going to be there.I don't know how I should act or what to do?
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Hi, my name is jessica and i am fifteen years old and i think that you should try and talk to him and it is ocward or some thing ignore him!!! pretend he dose not exist in fact don't even message him any more he is dead to you and i promise he will come to you... it may not be that night or the next night but he will. try to be around him more often but not totaly stalker like and ignore him if he makes eye contact with you at any time smile and look for a moment longer and look away!!!! unless he talks to you don't talk to him!!! and if he dose talk to you act like nothing happend and you should be fine.
hope what i said helped and if you have any more questions you can e-mail me at chick_flicked13@hotmail.com
-Jessica Dawn +}
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Okay so I like this guy a lot..I've known him for 3 years and we were alway's good friends. He said he loved me. Once, while we were dating and when he was drunk, he flirted with some of my friends..he apologized though, and never did it again. We dated for around 3 months..but I broke up with him because he can sometimes be clingy and mean. I also liked another guy, which probably led me to breaking up with him also. It's been 2 years since we dated. Basically, we started texting/talking again. We stopped talking after I dated the guy I liked, and he dated another girl who I knew, but never really liked. I broke up with my boyfriend 3 months ago..and his girlfriend broke up with him almost 4 months ago. He was heartbroken. He alway's had bad luck with women. I didn't have feelings for him..until we started talking again. The major problem is..he still isn't over her 100%. I try to help him out by giving him advice.I like him though, I've told him I do. He hasn't really said that to me though. He want's to be single for a little while. But, he told me, I can still have the benefits. I feel like he's using me? But I don't know. He said he likes talking to me, and he's even said he loves me. But I want a relationships..not the benefits. And, another thing..he ignores my texts often. One time I asked why and he was a little moody that day and said "I don't have to talk to you everyday so don't get mad when I ignore your texts" =/. I found that rude. But I still talked to him. He randomly texted me last week saying he's sorry he hasn't texted me but he will talk to me the next day. I got nothing from him. When I asked he said he was tired so he went to sleep. But a few days later he mentioned how he was talking to his ex gf that day. So, I guess he was lying to me about being THAT tired. And today..I texted him saying "Hey, how are you?" and he ignored it =/. I don't know..sometimes he acts as if he has feelings, but then sometimes he ignores me. I need advice on this pleasee. Thankyou! (link)
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okay my name is jessica and i am about fifteen but don't judge my answer by my spelling or name, but i think that i might be able to help you with your problem because i went throu a similar one this month. there is this guy who i have known for years now and he tells me that he wants to "hook up" now i never really thought any thing of him until now, but any way he began to ignore me after the first time we had sex and it bothered me but i noticed that the more he didn't want me the more i wanted him, and the more i wanted him the more he wanted me and i was wondering if it could also work both ways so i began to ignore him and in a way it worked. but i think that you should NOT text him at all or call only talk to him in person up front because every one is easier to talk to in person no matter who you are. and this way you could see his face reactions to what you have to say giving you a better idea on what he is thinking about. only text him to reply some thing he has sent you. another thing that might help is if you see him at the mall or some thing from a ways away make eye contact with him for a while then give him a slye smile and see if he will come to you witch he should. don't try and call his name or motion him to come over just keep an eye on him and try to make eye contact. then again don't stalk him either.
hope any thing i said helped you out +} and if you would like to ask me any more questions you can e-mail me at chick_flicked13@hotmail.com
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I've been in love with the same boy for nearly a year. During June, he said he felt the same way and we began talking a lot. He confessed that he really did love me and everything was going fine. He asked me out a week before today and I thought that it was set that we'd have a mostly lasting relationship. It's only been a week and now he says he's lost interest in me and feels that he doesn't have to try anymore. He claims that he only likes me and no longer loves me. :/ I, unfortunately, cannot get over someone that quickly. I asked him how it was possible that someone could just drastically un-love someone that way and he replied with, "Maybe it's the people that judge me." I asked him to elaborate, but he said he didn't know what he meant. Anyone think they can help? How do I get him 'interested' again? It's hard because I'm fourteen and unable to drive, but he lives an hour away from me. I really don't want to lose him for I'm afraid that I won't be able to move on from the heartbreak. Please help. :/ (link)
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Okay well my name is Jessica, i am fifteen and once upon a time the same thing happend to me but in a slightly different way there was this guy who i didn't really know but after we "hooked up" i felt like i have known him my entire life. i liked him so much but not even a week later he lost what feelings he may have had for me. but i only had a tast of him and i wanted more i don't know how to explain the way i felt exept that i wanted him more than any other guy i have ever been with and i was only 13 at the time and didn't really know how to work around things like that so what i would do is in a way what he did to me we were still together but he was thinking of ending it because his feelings have changed so every time we kissed or got really close to doing some thing we shouldn't have been doing i would pull away and say some thing sexy to make him want it more then walk away and say not now some other time or some thing along them lines, what i would do in simple terms is tease him... in a way. what i thought was that if was only going to give me a tast i was going to do the same. and it worked, but you have to keep it up but give some at the same time. like being a tease only so much then give in so he thinks he won or some thing because you know how guys like to win, so its kind of like a game, because in a game if you only run away from the person you are fighting with and don't shoot or some thing it will eventually catch up to you. now i am not telling you to go out and have sex with him but you do what you think you should . but don't have sex just to keep him either. if what i said didn't make total sence you can e-mail me at chick_flicked13@hotmail.com hope what i said helped +}
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I had sex with a guy and the condom broke, its been like... 2 weeks and i was wondering what the earliest signs for pregnancy were? Like,what starts happening to your body? and how soon does it happen? pleeeaaseee i need to know as much as possible! im 16 and i CANNOT be pregnate! thanks alot! (link)
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Okay i am a fifteen year old female and i am in a similar situation. i was having sex with my boyfriend on saterday and did not take plane B and i don't know if i might be pregnant or not and today is thursday but the odds are i am, and don't get me wrong i am very scared. but i do not think you are pregnant the earliest signs of being prego is about 1-3 days after you ovulate or with in around a month after the condom breaking. also every women's body is different so you might be feeling early signs of being prego depending on what your status is, like if you are you might be feeling things like bloating, nausea in the evenings and mornings, and or the body feelings you get before you have your period. it would be the best if you can bye an over the counter prego test with in the third week of these sick like feelings you may be getting so if this is your second week you only have one more week to go before i think you should take the test. and i do hope anything i may have said helped. +}
-Jessica Dawn
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