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Okay,so im going to sum up my story into short.
There's this guy that I was "talking" to for about 6 weeks,i liked him alot and he liked me.
He started hanging out with me everyday ,along with my group of friends as well. He then told me he just wanted to be friends ,he didnt have a reason and he claims i didnt do anything wrong.He also at one point liked my best friend and she kinda liked him too. So at that point,we all just agreed that our friendships were more important and that all three of us would be friends.After this agreement,I had a little party and whatnot and got a little drunk and me and my best friend both ended up hooking up with him .I was all over him all night and I wouldn't leave him alone.(which was stupid)The next day,he calls me and tells me that his parents found out about the little party that was at my house and got in trouble and isnt allowed to use his car and whatnot and he told me that he was really annoyed with me that night and he again said that he was going to be friends with me and my best friend and nothing more. Well,recently he has been talking to my best friend more and asking her to hangout "as friends" but he hasn't even talked to me at all or responded to any of my messages.Tonight we are all going to my friends goodbye dinner and he's going to be there.I don't know how I should act or what to do?
Advice please!
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Hi, my name is jessica and i am fifteen years old and i think that you should try and talk to him and it is ocward or some thing ignore him!!! pretend he dose not exist in fact don't even message him any more he is dead to you and i promise he will come to you... it may not be that night or the next night but he will. try to be around him more often but not totaly stalker like and ignore him if he makes eye contact with you at any time smile and look for a moment longer and look away!!!! unless he talks to you don't talk to him!!! and if he dose talk to you act like nothing happend and you should be fine.
hope what i said helped and if you have any more questions you can e-mail me at chick_flicked13@hotmail.com
-Jessica Dawn +}
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Hey there,
okay I think after all thats happend its definately best to just stay friends with this guy and nothing more.
hes made it clear that he just wants to be friends,you got a little drunk and had hooked up,its in the past dont dwell on it move on and dont think anything more of it.
theres 2 possible options of what could be going on here.
Option 1. your guy friend is being sincere when he says he wants to be friends with both you and your other friend and nothing more and if so you should both respect that.
Option 2.judging by his behavour it Is Possible he might be starting to like your friend more?
but you cant read to much into it otherwise you will come off as being the paronied over obsessive type and you very much don't want that.
I doubt this is the case however,I think hes just feeling a little awkward over what happend and needs his space.
tonight just act totally normal like his friend and nothing else,play it cool =)
if this guy and your friend are into each other then they should at least tell you,that way if your hung up on him it will give you a chance to move on ask your bestfriend to honestly tell you if she sees him as anything more and vice versa,
if this happens then all you can do is just do your best to be happy for both and don't get in the way.
theese are all just possible outcomes youl just have to wait and see dont keep badgering your friend give him the space for a while then see how things are,if he continues to ignore you and not speak to you then to be blunt hes not much of a friend and its his loss so just move on.
hope I helped =)
much <3
Jess
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