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LDR.
both 15.
i'm a girl
so i spent a lot of time this summer in a different city 4 hours away from where i live. with my other family and i met this wonderful boy and i liked him even though he liked my cousin (whos 13) and she kissed him twice and then a while passed and he REALLY liked her but he finally got over it and she told him how i liked him and then he asked me out but we both decided it wasnt a good idea cuz neither of us wanted a long distance relationship. so then we still talked on the phone everyday and hung out at the pool and park together with some other people. then theres this other girl thats 13 and she reallyyyy likes him. she denies it but everyone knows she does. and shes such a bitch we reallyyy dont like each other. and then the day before i left to go home me and him met up at a park and we sat on this bench and he kissed me(: three times (my first kiss and my first boyfriend). and then he asked me if i wanted to try a long distance relationship and i said i do if you want to and he said ya. so basically when i was up there for a month and a half we talked everyday and when i got home we talked like twice in two weeks and he never calls me anymore cuz he says his phone got turned off or hes grounded. like he called me back the next day and was like you called and i was like ya and he goes okay... what did you want and i was like uh to talk to you because i haven't talked to you and he said he was grounded for seven days well about the third day that 13 yr old bitch calls me out of know where to let me know that my boyfriend was coming over to her house. and oh man that tore me up because he was "grounded" so i called to tell him what i had heard and he said he went there to work on her big brothers motercycle and i was like ya okay and then i was like welli thought you were grounded and then he said he got ungrounded that day but he didnt call me and that messed up. so i really think i should break up with him and so do my friends because they think hes lying to me. but i never get to talk to him to be able to break up with him so i dont know what to do! i mean i have guys down here coming at me left and right and flirting with me and asking me if i have a bf and im like well ya kinda sorta its complicated.
SO UGH my bf is just holding me back
like i talked to him for two minutes last week and i was like call me tonight because i really need to talk to you and he didnt
so this is comeplete bullshit.
and i need to break up with him
but i need your help
what do you think about this?
advice?
opinions?
please.
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I think he's full of shit. Plain and simple. None of that seems to add up but the real question is: Do you think he's lying to you? If so, then do the right thing. Kick his butt to the curb and get you a nice cute guy in your neighborhood. Why let him hold you back if he's doing what he wants where he's at? Move on, you can do better.
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okay just end it next time you talk to him make it the first thing that comes out of your moth besides hello is dadadada there. and if he tries to say but why i want you, i think its a go or no go that is up to you but one of the best advice i ever had was if he wants you he wants you guys are really easey to understand if you think about you if he cared enough to call he would even if he was in trouble he would at least try face fact he dose NOT want you as far as i see or lol. read +} but really he want s you he wants you if he doesn't he doesn't you see when a guy wants some to go down he will make sure it happens unless he is shy. but your guy dose not sound shy. so that dose not have to mean he is cheating on you because there is a good thing that he is not but just that he dose not want you any more because it is not up front. it is like a basket ball game if all you are doing is sitting on the side lines and not really playing you don't really want to be there if you are a baller but you still want to know who wins and if you are in the game if you really want to win you go for it no matter what. but he dose not rally want you because he is on the side lines and not playing and if he is or dose get to play ( play like talk to you or some thing) he does not want to win because it is a pointless game. if you did not understand this fully or have any other questions you can e-mail me at chick_flicked13@hotmail.com
-Jessica Dawn
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