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kissing
Ok, so I'm in 6th grade. I'm a girl. I just got my first boyfriend and I like him a lot. I kiss him a lot and he seems to enjoy it and everything, but I'm totally scared that if I frenched him (my first time and his) I would be really bad. I know guys care about how good their girlfriend kisses and it's really awkward whenever he tries and I just break into it and say "Let's not rush into that yet" and he completely respects it, but is still wanting to. How do I break the fear? Does it just come naturally when you're ready or what?
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I've had my share of girlfriends, and trust me, kissing is not even that great. It's... awkward.. especially if you haven't been dating for very long.
Don't rush into making out, because once you do it with him, it's going to give him the green light to do it all the time, and it will probably start to make you uncomfortable if you're not ready.
I've had pushy girlfriends, especially when it came to making out, and I felt pressured into doing it, and it just.. didn't feel right.
So, my advice to you is to not do it until you are sure that you're ready.
--Jack
(17/m)
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Okay honestly, he's probably just as scared. Frenching will come naturally, trust me I was just as scared and wondered how to do it. Thing is, frenching can be kind of gross, but fun once you know how to do it. Don't be nervous. You'll learn after doing it for the first time, and if he really likes you, he won't think it's disgusting. It's simple. You'll do find don't worry too much about it.
Hope I helped :)
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You just have to give yourself time. Don't feel like you HAVE to do something you're not ready for, because you don't. Eventually, you'll feel comfortable enough with him (and yourself), and you will be ready to take the kissing to the next level.
Honestly- you're still young, so don't rush it. You have plenty of time left for kissing ;)
As for how to be "good" at it or whatever, just go with the flow. Chances are that he's going to be just as nervous as you, so don't worry. Just do what feels right and go with what he's doing. Don't worry; you'll be fine!
-Laura (17-f)
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all i have to say is use your whole tong and not just part of it in and out in dipping motion and dont put your lips over his right on his the rest should come natural. and you dont need to rush its okay +} if you have any more questions you would like to ask you can e-mail me at chick_flicked13@hotmail.com be safe have fun and hope i helped you out +}
-Jessica Dawn
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