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woah baby. 15/f
bob=15
so theres this guy lets call him bob well i met bob at this place and he gave me his number. i was head over heels for him but then we stopped talking and then started talking on and off. it took me forever to get over him even though we never went out. i've known hom for nine months now. well one night he texted me a fwd (which he NEVER does) one of those forwards call bang me or pass.
and this is how the conversation went:
(the bang me or pass fwd)
me: wow really?
him: cha!
me: i'm not gonna answer that
him: why not
me: ha i dont know.
him: pleasee
(he begged for me to answer that for like 20 minutes)
he then tells me how he likes my friend
(and she has a boyfriend)
it was weird because the next day me and her were hanging out and he invited us to his pool but we couldnt so she invited him to her pool but he couldn't
(thank god because i would have fainted)
(then i finally worked up the nerve to do this)
(which i have NEVER done before)
me: i used to like you.
him: ok i knew that
me: HOW
him: i'm physic
me: ha ya okay
him: no i'm serious think of something and i'll tell you
him: your thinking im not gonna be able to guess what your thinking
me: no i was actually thinking of football
him: ya right
me: i'm serious! but really how did u know
him: idk some how i figure stuff out, i knew for a long time, its not that hard.
me: oh...
him: ya and i think you liked me right when you saw me for the first time
(woah baby was he right)
(smart boyyy:)
me: well your right. but do you still think i like you?
him: yes.
me: well do you think i should still like you
(or something like that)
him: its your choice
me: but i want your opinion
him: my opinion is that you should follow your instinks and/or heart
(AWWW ISN'T THAT SWEET?!)
(and then it was late so we said goodnight)
SOOOOO WHAT DO YOU THINK?!?!?!
I REALLY DONT KNOW IF I SHOULD LIKE HIM AGAIN
I MEAN I KINDA DO BUT IT TOOK ME FOREVER TO GET OVER HIM AND I DONT WANNA DO THAT AGAIN.
SOO WHAT SHOULD I DO?!
I WANT HIM TO LIKE ME INSTEAD OF MY FRIEND!!
UGH, HELP?
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It's a little unclear to me. I wouldn't say that he likes you. He may just want to keep you around until he finds someone else. Men are really big about keep girls around just to fill their down time. I would let him initiate contact and the relationship. That way you'll know for sure that he likes you. ]
i think you really do like him and the way it sounds you really like him. i think he was trying to give you a hint, most guys don't want to make choices for women and think when they say its you choice that it is kinda like saying you want me have me if not okay. but don't go all freaky and be all over him next time you see him just play it cool and trow in some sly word play some along the lines of what if i already mad up my choice but i am just waiting for you to make yours like in a non up front way of saying do you want me too? or like if he looks at you from across the room make eye contact for a while make a sly smile and look away. but what ever you do DO NOT hate on your friend for him liking her either that is liek one of the biggest NO NO's ever!!! hope i helped if you want to ask me any more questions you can e-mail me at chick_flicked13@hotmail.com
-Jessica Dawn ]
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