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I don't know if he feel's the same for me..:(. I'm sorry this is long!
Okay so I like this guy a lot..I've known him for 3 years and we were alway's good friends. He said he loved me. Once, while we were dating and when he was drunk, he flirted with some of my friends..he apologized though, and never did it again. We dated for around 3 months..but I broke up with him because he can sometimes be clingy and mean. I also liked another guy, which probably led me to breaking up with him also. It's been 2 years since we dated. Basically, we started texting/talking again. We stopped talking after I dated the guy I liked, and he dated another girl who I knew, but never really liked. I broke up with my boyfriend 3 months ago..and his girlfriend broke up with him almost 4 months ago. He was heartbroken. He alway's had bad luck with women. I didn't have feelings for him..until we started talking again. The major problem is..he still isn't over her 100%. I try to help him out by giving him advice.I like him though, I've told him I do. He hasn't really said that to me though. He want's to be single for a little while. But, he told me, I can still have the benefits. I feel like he's using me? But I don't know. He said he likes talking to me, and he's even said he loves me. But I want a relationships..not the benefits. And, another thing..he ignores my texts often. One time I asked why and he was a little moody that day and said "I don't have to talk to you everyday so don't get mad when I ignore your texts" =/. I found that rude. But I still talked to him. He randomly texted me last week saying he's sorry he hasn't texted me but he will talk to me the next day. I got nothing from him. When I asked he said he was tired so he went to sleep. But a few days later he mentioned how he was talking to his ex gf that day. So, I guess he was lying to me about being THAT tired. And today..I texted him saying "Hey, how are you?" and he ignored it =/. I don't know..sometimes he acts as if he has feelings, but then sometimes he ignores me. I need advice on this pleasee. Thankyou!
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okay my name is jessica and i am about fifteen but don't judge my answer by my spelling or name, but i think that i might be able to help you with your problem because i went throu a similar one this month. there is this guy who i have known for years now and he tells me that he wants to "hook up" now i never really thought any thing of him until now, but any way he began to ignore me after the first time we had sex and it bothered me but i noticed that the more he didn't want me the more i wanted him, and the more i wanted him the more he wanted me and i was wondering if it could also work both ways so i began to ignore him and in a way it worked. but i think that you should NOT text him at all or call only talk to him in person up front because every one is easier to talk to in person no matter who you are. and this way you could see his face reactions to what you have to say giving you a better idea on what he is thinking about. only text him to reply some thing he has sent you. another thing that might help is if you see him at the mall or some thing from a ways away make eye contact with him for a while then give him a slye smile and see if he will come to you witch he should. don't try and call his name or motion him to come over just keep an eye on him and try to make eye contact. then again don't stalk him either.
hope any thing i said helped you out +} and if you would like to ask me any more questions you can e-mail me at chick_flicked13@hotmail.com
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seems like he was really into his ex.. he is obviously still heart broken over the breakup. I dont think rite now at this point that he would wanna be more than friends with you because if he did he would try to communicate with you on the regular. He just needs time to clear his head & he cleary stated that he does not want a relationship. I think you should just be friends and text him probably twice a week to see how he is doing. in a nice way he is tryin to tell you that he just not into a relationship with u now.
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