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What are the chances I have HIV? What are the chances that I have a STD?
I am 26 now and didn't lose my virginity until I was 23 years old. I lost my virginity to a stripper from a nightclub I had been visiting. Since then I have been to 4 different female escort services though. I used condoms every time I went to an escort and we did have full penetration sex, but with the first girl I did not use a condom (I didn't really expect it to happen).
I have also received oral sex without a condom on and have given oral sex without barrier protection. These were also from the escort girls though. I think the escort services probably STD tested their girls on a fairly regular basis though, right?
I later had sex with a girl that was about 35 years old. We both got drunk at a party and their was no condom used. We engaged in full penetrative sex and oral sex. There is a high probability that she has been with many, many people because of her overall demeanor, but I don't know her from anyone and I couldn't tell you anything more about her to save my life.
About a year ago I took a trip to Las Vegas. I have low self esteem but was wanting to have sex so I actually picked up a couple prostitutes while I was in town. I am pretty sure that the second one I picked up was on some sort of drug because she was extremely eager to get her money and the others weren't as jumpy and strange.
I'm guessing that I probably have something, but not sure what. I was to afraid to get tested because I know that if I was positive for HIV or AIDS my life would be useless. I have a very nice job that pays well and I have no idea how I've stayed out of the drug scene. I am almost afraid that finding out I have an STD will push me to drugs because I will have to stop paying for sex. I could never get girlfriends so I turned to whores, I guess. I know that I was playing Russian Roulette every time I slept with these girls, but I felt I had no choice since I am unattractive, boring, have no sense of humor, etc.
1. What are the chances that I actually have HIV?
2. What are the chances that I have at least some type of STD?
3. What are the chances of have an incurable STD like Herpes?
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I really hope you consider getting help for your sex addiction there can be a very small chance that you have not contracted anything but you will never know unless you get tested. I do think that you have risked alot and again maybe you have avoided Aids or HIV but again only testing will tell. One the most important things you will also have to do is really get help and to set your mind on changing your lifestyle the only way to control an outbreak is to do that decide to put a contril on it. Your life will always be worth more than gold. there is hope in a form of treatments for HIV so the battle isnt over. You have a high rate of getting a STD, and im sure you know that no STD will tell you that you have one unless you get tested. Please get some help and STOP having sex until you get treatments if you dont value your life at least consider the lives of others. i hope this helps
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I would get yourself tested.
Out of all people escorts have a high risk of STD "there job pretty much says it all" To be honest with you having sex with an escort and no condom probably wasn't the smartest choice. An escorts job is to be a whore...and god only knows how many people they have been with. Also if you ever decide to go to a club or whatever again keep in mind that escorts will do just about ANYTHING to get money.
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okay it looks like you have SOMETHING?? you should go and get tested because if you don't your condition what ever that might be may get worse. Try to go to places if you are clean and ask the owner if the girls that he is "selling" are clean or not and if they get tested or just get a blow up doll they work too +}
hope what i have told you helps in any way good luck
Jessica Dawn
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No one can pull these numbers out of thin air.
The important things is there is A CHANCE you have an STD. Certainly enough of a chance that it would be irresponsible for you not to get tested.
If you don't get tested, your simply running the risk of spreading it to someone else, which you have no right to do. And frankly, I know many HIV and AIDs positive people who are lovely, useful kinds of people. I'm sure you could be one of those type, if you wanted to be. Your depression and lack of self-esteem is going to stick around regardless of your having an STD or not. Perhaps you should work on that first and foremost, and just not sleep with anyone else until you get some of those issues under control. A therapist would be a better investment in your health and happiness then a prostitute.
Then, get tested.
If it comes back clean, maybe find yourself a regular, sensible, drug-free, professional sex trade worker who you feel you can trust. They exist out there, and it's safer all around then picking up sketchy ladies off the corner.
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