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majorly sucks =/.
i miss him like crazy. one of my really good friends, just moved far away for a while, and he doesnt know when he's coming back. yea, we did have a thing, no, we weren't dating. i've liked him a lot for a while now, and at one point i was sure that he liked me, now idk. and he's not the type of person who just comes out and says it. he moved for a reason, and im glad he went for those reason, but i miss him so much. i keep thinking about the day he left, the memories before hand, and not knowing when i'll be able to see him again doesnt help. and then i think what terrifys me, is that he'll find someone, and that someone, won't be me. i can't tell him this, because if i do, it just makes everything worse, and everything harder, and its not fair to make him think that i believe he should be tied down to me, esp. when he's so far away. i can't think about any other guy. i miss him so much. that it makes me want to cry everytime i think about it. someone please please please help =/.
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He doesn't know when he's coming back? Well I know it'll be really really really hard, but your going to have to try your absolute best trying to get away from this guy. The more and more you keep liking him, the more your heart will be broken in the end. Because he's far away, chances is you might not see him for a very long time, and the best thing to do would be slowly back away. Sure, call him! Like, start off if you call him or talk to him 4 times a day...start making it 2...then one..then none. Like, you know what I mean? Slowly back off? It'll hurt, and hell yes it's going to be hard. But it's really what's best.
But if you don't want to do that, then I would suggest telling him how you really feel. If you never tell him, he'll never know that your so hurt but him being gone, and maybe he'll find out he feels the same way, and he'll manage a way to come back for a visit.
I don't know, but your in a tough situation. But before you do anything, i would suggest you tell him how you feel and what your going through, that's truley what's best. If he has no response then that's when you back off. If that's not it, like he misses you too that it hurts, then you guys can probably scheme up some way to see eachother!
But tell him tell him tell him.
I hope I helped, and I hope it gets better.
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