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unsure about his attitude
hi, i am years old and i have been dating this guy for almost 2 yrs. i am his 1st girlfriend and he is my 1st boyfriend.well lately he has been acting preety wierd.
first, he gets these random texts any time of the night/morning from girls from his job. well on one particualr day, some girl text him "where you at?" and his reponse was "waiting for my friend" then i told him,how come you couldnt tell her you at my house. then his excuse was "jake called me 5 min ago, and he is coming over so i can bring him somewhere"he finally seen how frustrated i was, and told her he at his girls house. at that point, i didnt car.
then again, like 9 days after, i was playing on his cell phone. thats when i spotted a picture of a girl. i asked him who is this girl and i get no reponse. then i proceeded to delete her picture, and all hell break loose. he gets mad screaming at me. telling me that she is his step-dad's niece, and she is a cousin to him. yells at me some more, and tells me to never touch his F***ing phone anymore.
again that night, i come from work, we eat dinner and everything seems ok. he gets on the computer,and i watch over his shoulder. i cough (since i do have a cold) he tells me to stop coughing on him. after a few minutes, i cough again, he rants and raves and storms out.
what is up with him? i believe something is up with him and he may be cheating, attracted to another woman, etc.
the facts are:
he isnt so good looking
isnt so good in bed
and has low self esteem
(no, i dont tell him that b/c it would crush him, not trying to sound mean, just laying it out there so i can get good advice)
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Okay, scratch the 'What's wrong with him?' questions for a moment, because you can't really know without asking him.
The Facts Are:
He's temperamental and rages at you.
You don't trust him.
You don't think he's good looking, or good in bed.
You don't respect him.
So, since I can't ask him what's wrong, I'm going to ask you.
What is wrong with you?!
Why would you stay with someone you don't think is attractive or loyal? Who you don't trust or respect? Why are you with this guy?
Even if he isn't cheating, and it certainly sounds like you think he is, but even if he isn't, you aren't happy with him. You sound like you are ready to dump him. Don't wait for him to cheat before you make up your mind. You can leave this relationship whenever you choose, and now sounds like a good time to me.
You don't need a 'good reason' to dump someone, you only need your own reasons. You don't need to wait for a guy to cheat on you before you decide the relationship isn't working anymore. If it's not working, and you aren't happy, it doesn't matter if he's screwing around or not, you're still not happy.
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