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theres this kid i like and he likes me but hes going out with my friend and before that he went out with my other friend. im not sure on what to do because i really like him and likes me, but i dont wanna hurt my friend. this girl is one of my best friends and i dont wanna hurt her if i ever went out with him. now i have a bf but i dont like him and he was one of my good friends and stuff and i wouldve felt bad if i said no to him so i said yeah but i feel huilty making him think i like him (we just started going out today). so now its like one big love square. to make matters worse im still getting over my last relationship which i have no idea why i ended it because i was in love with the kid. but im really mad at my x cause everything i told him (like the stuff when we broke up) he ran to his dad and told him everything! im so confused about this. i hope you can help me
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Hey there,
Okay what you need to ask yourself is who is more important to you,your best friend or some guy?
honestly is it worth hurting her for a potential relationship with this guy that might not even last being realistic is it worth loosing a friend?
rememeber the old saying "boyfriends will come and go but best friends are forever" seriously.
you need to ween yourself off this guy,liking him is dangerous.
its not fair for him to be going out with her if he likes you.
and the same goes for you with your boyfriend,you cant keep leading him on like this tell him the truth before it goes on too long and he gets hurt.
if you end it now you can take the easy way out and say look i said yes too quickly id rather be friends im not sure i want a relationship right now im sorry,considering that fact that your also still getting over your ex,you can add that in too.
the choice is yours,your friend her or boyfriend. I personally would not go there it really isnt worth the stress anger and hurt that will explode because of it.
you and her boyfriend need to give each other space and do your best to move on from your feelings for each other.
Try not to rush into relationship after relationship chances are your sitll young you dont need all that stress just enjoy your freedom for a while.give yourself a chance to truly get over someone before going onto the next.
I hope I helped,
Much <3 && good Luck
Jess.
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