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Meeting new boys


Posted Monday January 28 2013, 8:37 pm

Im 15, female single for around a year now and i just am an awkward person. all i want is a boyfriend, there are a couple of guys i think are hot and i would love to talk to them more but i just dont know how. one is in my spanish class and is my friends cousin and she told me she would talk to him, let him know about this partner dance them poms team im on is doing but i dont know if i should strike up a conversation in spanish class or what?! help please this is driving me nuts!

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How to bring myself to participate in class discussions?


Posted Monday January 28 2013, 8:34 pm

I'm a college student and I've gotten really good grades so far, but only because the classes I've taken have been exam and paper based. I'm taking one class this semester that's largely participation-based, and I'm so scared of it that I'm thinking about dropping it. I'm extremely shy and every time I have to speak publicly, I act and sound so nervous that I'm sure everyone's embarrassed for me. Sometimes in discussions I think I might have something to say and I start preparing myself to raise my hand, but then my heart starts beating really fast and I can't muster up the courage. Most of the time, though, I can't even think of anything to say...I know I'm not stupid, so I'm not sure if I'm just nervous and can't think straight or what. B...

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Rebound...???


Posted Monday January 28 2013, 8:29 pm

Hi. 25/f, here. I'm confused. Like, very. I'm about to go into a graduate program for clinical psychology and I can't figure this out. I need another (few) sets of intelligent eyes on this situation to help me.

So, my boyfriend and I broke up a couple days ago. Prior to all that, we were on a break, and a friend of his made it all but stupidly obvious that he has a thing for me. I've known it for quite awhile, thanks to a couple we're-the-only-people-awake-this-ridiculously-late style conversations, including his being very supportive while I was losing my mind about my then boyfriend and his immaturity issues. I was honestly hoping it would all remain platonic and it'd be fine. I was hoping my - well, now my ex - boyfriend ...

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How to make friends in college when you're shy?


Posted Monday January 28 2013, 8:15 pm

I’m a sophomore in a huge college and I'm having a really hard time. My best friend since middle school, who’s also my roommate, has changed so much that it’s clear we probably won’t hang out at all after this semester, the only guy I’ve ever had any sort of intimate relation with just withdrew and I’ll never see him again, and my only other friend is dropping out after this semester. It's hard right now, but I can't imagine what it'll be like next year when I literally don't have anyone. I’m really shy and awkward and I have really low confidence, and even in high school seeing the same people every day in school, it was hard for me to make friends. I feel like I have nobody to talk to. Recently I’ve realized that crying in...

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Feeling useless depressed and suicidal


Posted Monday January 28 2013, 7:42 pm

I am really stressed out and a lot of people always come to me for advice and help with their problems, I never minded before but lately I've been down. It's been 3 days &I can't seem to leave my house, I only go to the bathroom drink a bit of water then go back to sleep. I stopped talking to my closest friend who I have had strong feelings for, for 3 years after I was rejected. I ignore my family's calls my fish died the other day from neglect I feel worse for that too. I'm ready to shutdown and give up. I need help. I haven't gone to work or called in I don't even know if I'll make it the rest of the week. I hate myself. I can't talk to anyone close to me, they tell me I'm being overly dramatic and baby, for me to grow up. Then they p...

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College: How do you decide what you should go to college for?


Posted Monday January 28 2013, 7:38 pm

How do I decide What I should go to college for?

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Should I go out with a chubby boy?


Posted Monday January 28 2013, 7:08 pm

I'm a 13 year old girl, and the boy is 14 years old. I've dated him before and he was really really sweet but he is on the chubby side, I usually don't date chubby boys. My friends said that he was talking about how he was going to ask me out this Friday but idk. I don't want to hurt his feelings because he's like the big brother I've never had. Should I go out with him?

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I can't stop him from taking pictures of me and snding them!


Posted Monday January 28 2013, 6:33 pm

I'm 19and I have a 20 year old boyfriend and all he wants to do is haw sex with me. I dont want to have sex with him but he sometimes put's his hand on my thigh and starts touching me and he grabs my hand and puts it on his dick which I don't mind but it is when he sends naked pictures of me to his mates and they all want a bit I love him but I don't want him to take anymore pictures but I can't stop him.
Sort of dont know what to do!

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I'm really confused! What do I do??


Posted Monday January 28 2013, 5:51 pm

There is this boy I like but he likes my best friend I hate them for it but you can't help who you love but I also love someone else and I will call him Fred as I dont want to I've away his name but I love him a lot unfortunately I don't know how he feels about me. I mean we was walking to school the other day and it was raining and I forgot my coat so he gave me his hoodie the hole day but I dunno if he was being kind or he fell ill as it is not his usual personality. So anyway I'm really confused

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Feelings for a close friend and future room mate.


Posted Monday January 28 2013, 5:05 pm

19/F

I've started developing feelings for my closest friend at uni, let's call him R. I'm usually quite shy and though I do have other friends here I'm not close to any of them, and R's the only person I've met so far whom I feel completely at ease around.

We met at a party where I introduced myself to him because I thought he was cute, and we spent the entire night talking/flirting and exchanged numbers at the end. Since then we started talking a lot/hanging out and there's always been this 'are we just friends or is something more going to happen here?' vibe between us. Originally it seemed like he was trying to initiate something more but I wasn't sure how I felt so I backed away a little. However, ironical...

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how should a family prepare for a family members incarceration?


Posted Monday January 28 2013, 3:37 pm

my wife will be going to prison for one year soon. My wife says not to give her any money but is that a good idea or will she need it for things there? Also, she says just send her books or something. So can you just send those things? There must be some long process involved. Also, what other things should a family do to prepare for family members incarceration? Is there anything they are supposed to bring with them? Also, should I allow our 14 year old daughter to visit her when she goes or is that a bad idea to bring here there? Also, if I take her to visit she might think "mom went to jail, she has no right to tell me what to do anymore" .Which would just be a stressful thing. I even heard her express a kind of joy at her moth...

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A year older!!!


Posted Monday January 28 2013, 3:31 pm

I am in a weird situation. I am 13 and a girl. I'm am in a school where we have vertical tutoring ( in form for half an hour per day where pupils from each year group sit in the same class) there's this guy in year 10 ( I'm in year 9) I have a huge crush on him and I want to know if these. Are signs. The first is that I accidentally dropped some paper under his desk and he picked it up and grinned at me. The second is that he says hey a lot to me at random . Ge okay fights with his friend while looking at me. And when I sent him a skype friend request he accepted straight away ... I want to get his attention but I don't know how thanks for helping

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My mom and dad was fighting with me when I was just taking advice.


Posted Monday January 28 2013, 2:31 pm

Here I have a problem. If I do what my dad said to do when I was crying which was to go to the garage. But if I do clean my room up I'll get into trouble because I am still crying. I can't ignore and I can't do. My mom gave me advice just that morning about a situation like this where if I listen to one the other one will be angry. If I listen to the other the other one will be angry. I took my mom's advice and it just got me into big trouble.

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how do i finger myself?


Posted Monday January 28 2013, 1:44 pm

Umm I have fingered myself before and it feels great but I need more pleasure and any household items that I can use? Any thing will be helpful thanks

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how do i finger myself better by using other things?


Posted Monday January 28 2013, 11:46 am

Umm so I've fingered myself before and it feels great but I would like to know what kind of things I can use at home to make the pleasure better?

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Talking with your "girlfriend"


Posted Monday January 28 2013, 7:46 am

Ok so when I want to talk about anything really she is never in the mood for me. But when its convenant for her an when she is ready to talk to me I have to give her an answer right away? Why because if I dont and I tell her im not in the mood and I dont want to talk right now she gets all mad at me. I know 2 wrongs dont make a right but thats what she does!! The saying goes you get what you give

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I need help: Can you get pregnant with your own milky fluid that comes out of your vagina?


Posted Monday January 28 2013, 5:30 am

Can you get pregnant with your own milky fluid that comes out of your vagina? Without sperm? ... Will that milky white thing cause you to be pregnant?

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I NEED ADVICE: I THINK MY DAD IS CHEATING ON MY MOM!!


Posted Monday January 28 2013, 4:11 am

I THINK MY DAD IS CHEATING ON MY MOM!! So I'm 13yr old and I know that this shouldn't be any of my business but I really think my dad is cheating on my mom.so I was looking thru my dads phone to show him this picture that I took then I saw a naked woman on his phone my mom found out and was crying. I felt so bad but this was in 2011. Then it's 1:04 right now and my dad isn't home and it is his off day. My mom is staying up all night because I know she is waiting on him.i really don't want to tell my mom but I really have a felling that he is cheating. He doesn't even act romantic and give any compliments towards my mom. He is never home and when he does come home he always smells like ciggerates. He has 3 jobs but always says he has no mon...

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Is something wrong with me or him or is it normal?


Posted Monday January 28 2013, 2:01 am

My boyfriend usually has to hold his penis while guiding it into my vagina. After a couple thrusts it falls out if his hand isn't there holding it. Is something wrong with me or him? Or is this normal?

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Mother struggling with depression over financial woes.


Posted Monday January 28 2013, 1:39 am

Im Will, 20 years old and a college student. My mother has been depressed about money for years now. She is drawing social security (which is used for all the bills.) She has a otheritus condition, but is very well to work but chooses not to. All she does is lay around and sleep for the heck of it. I help her in anyway that I can. I'll give her money every week and even that doesn't stop her depression. She expects me to take care of her even though I'm 55 miles away from home in college. She doesn't understand that I have classes and work to do and that I can't always be there. She is very uneasy with her money. She's a frequent smoker. I help as much as I can do so but she never appreciates it and can only say how much she's done for ever...

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