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i'm the worst girlfriend ever.
Posted Tuesday August 25 2009, 11:47 pm
i've been with my current boyfriend for 8 months. i love him, there's no doubt in that.
my ex boyfriend, i was with him for a short while, but he was my first serious boyfriend. i got over him last year. but recently, we've become better friends. and because of that, i've been having dreams about him and i, alone, kissing, etc.
and i think that's because last year when we broke up, he never gave me complete reason why. he just shut the door on me. we didn't talk for 8 months last year.
in my dreams, i'm just kissing him, showing him who i am, i'm the same girl he fell for. but i'm never in a relationship with him in my dreams or when i think about it.
could this be because i needed closure?
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To many guys situation... kinda long.
Posted Tuesday August 25 2009, 9:51 pm
Well, i had a bf, for almost 2 yrs, he broke my heart, i hate him. and everyhting, but i still have to see him everyday, and he makes life hell...
So then i have an ex bf lets call him... Guy #1. So guy #1 wants to date me again. The only reason we broke up is because im having family issues and he never had a gf, before so he has no idea what to do. we dated for a month this summer... and i kinda like him, but i dont think it will work out.
then theres Guy #2. my Best friend ever! i cant live without him! we know almost everthing about each other. and yeah, well i know i like him. i hate admiting it but i know i do! I know looks shouldnt matter, but theyy kinda do affect it. he is a zit faced, extremely pale w...
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should i still do it?
Posted Tuesday August 25 2009, 7:36 pm
ok so i'm back with another problem. i still like one of my very close to my guy friends. I still haven't told him i liked him because I want to wait for a perfect moment when its just the two of us. So we were hanging out before he went to soccer practice yesterday just the two of us. That's when I was going to tell him. Than my best friend interrupts saying that she needs to talk to me. She tells me that two of my closest girlfriends have feelings for him and they don't know I like him. So one liked him last year and said she got over him. But she likes him now and some other guys. The other one,she an him are good friends and is really into him. Now i don't think i should tell him because i wanna be a good friend. That just the way i am, so what should i do?
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Should I tell him how I feel? How am I supposed to tell him?
Posted Tuesday August 25 2009, 5:41 pm
Okay, sooo I'm like in love with my best friend, a TOTAL nerd. I've made up my mind that since either of us have moved on from liking each other for 2 or 3 years, its time to confess how I feel. We have SO MUCH in common and he's just so hard to stay away from. I really want to tell him my feeling but I don't know how to... I know he likes me too, he has ever since we met. I actually started hanging out with him because I knew he had a crush on me. I did that because I remembered all of the times I liked someone who would NEVER hang out with me, and I knew that it would be the nicest thing to do to at least be friends with the guy... Then rumors got around that we were dating. At that time I liked someone else, so I just kind of sighed and ...
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two blows in one day. (kind of long, sorry!)
Posted Tuesday August 25 2009, 5:04 pm
The other problem: After last night's ordeal, I woke up this morning and discovered that one of my best friends likes my ex who I am still partially attached too, even though we broke up awhile ago. I wouldn't wanna be with him, but he was my first boyfriend and I feel territorial about it.
Anyways, he likes her back and they talked about hanging out more to see if they wanna have a relationship. I told my friend that I wouldn't be a good friend if I tried to keep them apart, so she was grateful of that. I'm trying to do the right thing here, but its going to be really hard to see them together. Is it wrong to feel this way? If I were to ask my friend not to confide in me about this one particular guy and relationship, would ...
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two blows in one day. (kind of long, sorry!)
Posted Tuesday August 25 2009, 5:03 pm
f/16
So last night, this guy that I've liked for a few weeks rejected me. When we first started talking, it was great because the two of us would have actual conversations with detailed answers and questions. But overtime he begin to lose interest in talking and his answers got shorter to the point of one word messages.
Originally, we were going to make plans to hang out and go the movies. But last night I was trying to talk to him online, and I mentioned that I'd still like to make plans to hang out. He said that his mom wouldn't let him leave the house until his summer work was done (my mom made the same rule)so I said maybe once school started and said yeah maybe. Then, sensing some tension I said that he co...
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what should I do
Posted Tuesday August 25 2009, 3:48 pm
In advance, sorry if this is long.
Ok first off i'm with this guy named allen, we've been dating for 5 months tomorrow.
We've got lots of problems, he can be a bad bf at times, but then again i can be a bad gf at times, so we balence each other.
Anyways there is this guy that i liked a few years ago. His name is ben. He told me today that he wanted me all to himself, he asked if i felt the same about him. I do but i don't want to hurt my bf, and also i'm starting to fall in love with my bf (even tho he doesn't feel the same).
I don't know what to do, on the one hand i can dump my bf and probbly get treated better.
On the other hand if I stay with my bf, i could very well get dumped ...
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i REALLY like him .
Posted Tuesday August 25 2009, 12:29 pm
so there is this guy josh c that i met at my overnight camp and i really liked him and i just recently saw him when i was visiting in oakville and now he knows my feelings about him but i dont think he feels the same way .. and he lives 45 minutes away so it would be hard to see him . what do i do ?
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VERY LONG BUT PLEASE HELP. IF POSSIBLE MATURE MEN AND WOMEN HELP PLEASE!
Posted Tuesday August 25 2009, 11:22 am
ok, this is long but please help me.
my parents were out of the country and I had to rely on ppl for help and rides to work/school/food to eat (mainly my boyfriend of 2 yrs) but anyways 1day i havent ate all day and i got off work @ 2am and asked him to take me to the local fast food place.he refused. he know i didnt eat but he was mad. he says i always eat late and he cant do it for me no more. i was mad. i didnt understand why it is a problem if you know i am starving and havent eaten all day. i thought if he loved me he wouldnt want to see me hungry. so i asked to speak with him, but that didnt turn out so good. in the end, i asked for a break in the relationship and we didnt talk for 8 days. then i called him to speak aga...
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How do I handle this?
Posted Tuesday August 25 2009, 1:14 am
Okay. 21/f, he's 24/m, we've been together for, like, 4 years.
What's changed recently is that I'm in the throes of a massive pain problem. No doctor has found a correct diagnosis, and the painkillers I've been taking for it have recently stopped keeping the pain at bay.
A little background on me: I'm an extremely independent person, unused to leaning on anyone, let alone having anyone to lean on. This guy used to be like, the epitome of a bad boyfriend, and now all of a sudden, he's kinda perfect. I know I haven't adjusted to the change in him yet.
Problem: Every time I see him, having opened up to him more at this point, I feel the desire to just hug him and cry because I hurt so much. It happened ON...
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How can I stop being so nervous?
Posted Monday August 24 2009, 11:26 pm
14/f
I can touch the guy I like without getting nervous about it. I'll be a bit apprehensive, maybe, wondering "Are my hands sweaty? Are they cold? Are they rough???" And all that jazz, but that's normal.
Then, the weirdness happens--he goes to touch me and my insides get all twisted and stay that way for at least 30 minutes and I can still feel his touch for god knows how long. I mean, my insides get REAL twisted. I lose my ability to speak, and I freeze. I get sooo nervous! Not because I don't like him, but because... well, I don't know why! It's not like I don't WANT him to touch me, but when I get all worked up over him laying his hand on my shoulder or arm or something...won't he ...
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should i still do it?
Posted Monday August 24 2009, 10:30 pm
ok so I'm back with another crisis. So I like this guy, he and I are really good friends. It was the first day of school and everything is going to be perfect. I chilled with him after school before he went to soccer practice. Than my best friend comes and ask me if I told him how I felt. I said no just waiting for the perfect moment. She tells me that two of my other girlfriends like him. One of them liked him last year when I didn't and went onto a different guy. But now she's back into him and some other guy. The other one just started recently liking him. And now, they have no idea how I feel about him. I thinking of not acting on my feelings because they are two of my closest friends. However, i wanna tell him but I still scared he mig...
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Lost Love
Posted Monday August 24 2009, 9:49 pm
I am a 21 year old female. And I have a question that has been bugging me for a while. I have an ex boyfriend. That to this day I still have feelings for him. We were togeather for a year and, I really and truly loved him. And at the time I felt as if he was my soul mate. But he ended up leaving me after we got in an argument. And soon he started seeing other people. And he ended up getting back with his ex,and currently their staying togeather. And what's weird is, I still have feelings for him, I know we've been broken apart for a long time,. But I just can't stop thinking of him, Every day he's on my mind. And I just have this hope that one day we will reunite. My question is do you think it's posible that we are. I believe that we are soulmates and for some reason I just can't move on.
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crazy about me to ignoring me
Posted Monday August 24 2009, 9:20 pm
This might be long, but I'm in desperate need of advice. I'm 20, in college and relationships are/were never my strong point. I've been hurt, like everyone else, but I didn't bounce back normally. I'm emotionally closed off and I push away guys, and get claustrophobic when a relationship starts to get serious, so I sabotage everything and the guy ends up hating me. A few months ago, a guy I had class with started a conversation with me and it ended up with him admitting he had a crush on me, and I always thought he was cute. It went from there and we went on a few dates, and I let him know that I'm standoffish and I'm not like other girls who can let guys in. He didn't really like the fact that I barely called him and wouldn't act like I li...
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Asking a girl out
Posted Monday August 24 2009, 6:56 pm
So I'm ready to ask this girl out, we're friends, and we've been talking a lot lately. Here is more or less what I plan to say, is this good at all? Give me specific suggestions please.
"I’ve really enjoyed getting to know you better over the past couple months, and I feel like we’ve become pretty close since we’ve been talking everyday. To be honest, I am realizing that I’m starting to fall for you and your awesome personality. Basically I would like to know where you think you see this going between us, because I know where I would like to see it go."
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Flirting?
Posted Monday August 24 2009, 2:40 pm
Well I really like this guy a lot. I've already told him I did so its ok. But I wanna kno how he feels about me without actually having to ask him. So my question is how do I find out if he likes me?
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My bf and I clash
Posted Monday August 24 2009, 1:16 pm
17/f my bf is 18
My bf and I seem to clash a lot. We live together, but he tends to get annoyed easily, he is impatient sometimes, and he gets mad for no reason sometimes. I, on the other hand, am very sensitive, have a lot of patience and have a high tolerance, but my emotions get the best of me and I break down. So when my bf and I fight, it's like none of us apologize, things are said, and we just ignore each other or act like we are separated. And I know it's partly my fault for acting the same way by ignoring him, but I end up hurt and lock myself in the bathroom and let my emotions out.. (Im a big crier). I really don't know what to do... We have been together for 2 years and sincerely love each other but during these m...
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Just 'not ready'
Posted Monday August 24 2009, 12:03 pm
To start with, I have met a guy who I really like. At first we got along so well, he was always complimenting me and telling me he liked me. We've kissed but we haven't really gone any further. He told his best friend (who then told me) that he was going to ask me out. 2 weeks later and he still hasn't! I didn't mention it to him though, but the guy I like then said to me "I really like you, but i'm just not ready" and I said ready for what? And he said a relationship.
This always confuses me when I hear guys say this - yes I know it means what it says..but I just think what does he expect from me now, does he just want to be friends? Because if he wanted to just be friends then why does he keep texting/emailing me ...
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How do you tell if someone likes you?
Posted Monday August 24 2009, 11:57 am
This might sound like such a stupid question, but I actually don't know the answer to it. My friends often say to me "I don't know if he likes me" and I can always tell if a guy likes them, but never if they like me!
There's a guy I know and he has told me he likes me, his friends have also said he likes me... But I still don't believe it. We've kissed so many times, but that doesn't really mean anything!
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bus-driver and me?!
Posted Monday August 24 2009, 9:51 am
hey, so im 17/f
i take the bus on weekdays, im not going to go into detail and say which days etc. lol. but anyways, so i take the bus and sometimes this bus-driver, lets say his name is thomas, drives that bus.. and he winks when he says hi, or has some cheeky smile on when he greets me! he's kinda older than me, like maybe in his 30s.. but would u consider that he's hitting on me?
but anyways, i dont know if im starting to grow feelings for him! which is kind of gross to me. because he is kinda old, and a lil plumper than the usual.. so i just kinda need some idea or some sort of path for someone to help me see and follow. or maybe im just being silly over something small, like maybe he is just being nice and not liking me i...
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