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what should I do
In advance, sorry if this is long.
Ok first off i'm with this guy named allen, we've been dating for 5 months tomorrow.
We've got lots of problems, he can be a bad bf at times, but then again i can be a bad gf at times, so we balence each other.
Anyways there is this guy that i liked a few years ago. His name is ben. He told me today that he wanted me all to himself, he asked if i felt the same about him. I do but i don't want to hurt my bf, and also i'm starting to fall in love with my bf (even tho he doesn't feel the same).
I don't know what to do, on the one hand i can dump my bf and probbly get treated better.
On the other hand if I stay with my bf, i could very well get dumped by him in another few weeks or months, and probbly loose my chance with ben.
Ethier way its a loose situation for me.
ANd honestly I don't know what to do.
Any advice?
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Well, I don't know you, or your boyfriend or Ben, so I'm just going by what you're telling us.
A relationship that's full of so much negativety won't work out. It just doesn't. If one of you isn't happy, then the other won't be happy as well. Plus if your boyfriend doesn't love you back, why on earth would you wanna be with him?!
If you know Ben is going to be better for you, and make you happier, why not go for it? Can it get worse than your current situation with your boyfriend? Not likely.
So basically what's gonna make you happier?
And just so you know, at 5 months of dating, a relationship should not be miserable like yours. It should still be fun and happy and exciting. Your boyfriend should care about you, but if he's not, it's not worth it! Find someone you'll be happy with and who'll treat you the right way. You'll be a good girlfriend to someone like that.
Sorry for the rambling lol, I hope whatever you choose makes you happy. Message me for anything else.
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