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bus-driver and me?!
hey, so im 17/f
i take the bus on weekdays, im not going to go into detail and say which days etc. lol. but anyways, so i take the bus and sometimes this bus-driver, lets say his name is thomas, drives that bus.. and he winks when he says hi, or has some cheeky smile on when he greets me! he's kinda older than me, like maybe in his 30s.. but would u consider that he's hitting on me?
but anyways, i dont know if im starting to grow feelings for him! which is kind of gross to me. because he is kinda old, and a lil plumper than the usual.. so i just kinda need some idea or some sort of path for someone to help me see and follow. or maybe im just being silly over something small, like maybe he is just being nice and not liking me in THAT way, you know?!
thanks in advance!
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Sometimes we can mistake someones innocent kindness with flirtation... But sometimes its not so innocent... Deep down inside you should no weather he's actually flirting with you or he's just a really friendly guy. Now ask yourself these questions... Is he that way to everyone that ride that bus... especially females. And if so I think it is quite unnatural. If he's in his thirties, than I'm sure he knows that you're young. A crush on him, I think not... He's to old for you, ad if he's being overfriendly with you, than it's inappropiate... I'm not sure weather you're riding a city bus or school, but if it's a school bus than I think it's highly inappropiate... Don't think of him in any other way than an old guy driving a bus... you're young dear... focus on guys your own age... and if he make a futher advancement other than a wink or a smile... run as fast as you can or notify an adult... his boss or tell your parents
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All I can tell you is that you are a minor, and if he's hitting on you, then he's a nasty child chasing pervert.
Steer clear of that sort.
31/f
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Some girls develope small crushes when men take the slightest interest in them, whether it's winking or just waving... I don't believe he's hitting on you, it's probably just his personality. I think he's just being nice, and that you're overreacting just a tad bit. Just say hi back, and if you develope feelings it doesn't mean you have to act on them, they'll pass.
-Jasmine
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