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Should I tell him how I feel? How am I supposed to tell him?
Okay, sooo I'm like in love with my best friend, a TOTAL nerd. I've made up my mind that since either of us have moved on from liking each other for 2 or 3 years, its time to confess how I feel. We have SO MUCH in common and he's just so hard to stay away from. I really want to tell him my feeling but I don't know how to... I know he likes me too, he has ever since we met. I actually started hanging out with him because I knew he had a crush on me. I did that because I remembered all of the times I liked someone who would NEVER hang out with me, and I knew that it would be the nicest thing to do to at least be friends with the guy... Then rumors got around that we were dating. At that time I liked someone else, so I just kind of sighed and shook my head. But now that I've fallen (HARD) for him, I know I blush. This is when I started wondering if he knew how I felt about him. I'm trying my best not to seem 'tease-ish' but I cant help it if I like him!!!
Sooo i've figured out that the only way to get us to hang out more and really have the best relationship is to actually START it... but I just don't know how!!! I dont even know where to start, I mean I've always imagined the GUY telling ME how he felt... I never ever wanted to do the talking, just the agreeing :o)
Sooo I need some serious advice here... I will use the advice just as you say, I swear! I just dont really want to do anything too forward like kissing him, even on the cheek, because well I know I'm already realllllly nervous about telling him and I haven't even done it yet!!! So I cant even imagine what a kiss would be like... I'll leave that to HIM to lead xD
Please please help!!! :P
Sorry if this was too long, I just like to talk :)
I've already posted a couple things about him on here and you guys did a wonderful job answering, and I'm hoping its the same on this question :)
I'm counting on you!!! :P
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Hey there, :)
right well one thing going in your advantage ALREADY in this situation is that you know he likes you!
most girls when they like a guy or there best friend take ages trying to guess and figure out if they are liked back and it takes them a while to work up the courage to take the risk and confess their feelings but in this case if you think about its different your not taking much of a risk because you sort of know his feelings already its just the fear and nervousness then of taking the step to you being the one to tell him.
what you should do is call or text him and ask him to hang out someday movies mall or something relaxing and fun like that and as the day goes on sit him down and one point,dont over complicate things but just simply say something along the lines of,okay look (insert name here) I really like you and hanging out with you and just tell him how you feel and that youd like something more maybe,chances are he will be thrilled and agree straight away more often then not in theese situations both sides never want to be the one to iniciate it.
hes probably thinking the exact same as you gauruntee it!
if you cant really arrange to hang out or anything then pull him aside at school if you go to the same one of course.
or if you really cant handle doing it to his face maybe text it? its always the easy way out haha.
its natural to be nervous everyone goes through it but ive no doubt youl be fine =)
hope i helped in anyway and that things go well
feel free to inbox me or anything anytime
much <3
Jess 16/f
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heyyy..(this is gonna b long)
someone once told me relationships that start off as friendships tend to last longer..so seeing that you got the friendship part down, lets get to the relationship. i felt the same way you feel about making the first move and telling the guy how you feel...but sometimes you have to do it!!...if you dont make the first move, one day your gonna regret it cause, the one you have feelings for will move on because you never revealed for feelings for him. maybe your friend is waiting for you to say something, since he told you that he likes you. so this is how you do it...GET HIM ALONE..like you two just hang out somewhere and ease in to the topic..tell him that he has been an awesome friend and that you really like hanging out with him, and BOOM!..tell him you like him. if you cant do that..then do it over the phone, or by txting. one way or another let him know, dont hide in the bushes cause someone will come outta the blue and take him away. i hope i helped.
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