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Lost Love
I am a 21 year old female. And I have a question that has been bugging me for a while. I have an ex boyfriend. That to this day I still have feelings for him. We were togeather for a year and, I really and truly loved him. And at the time I felt as if he was my soul mate. But he ended up leaving me after we got in an argument. And soon he started seeing other people. And he ended up getting back with his ex,and currently their staying togeather. And what's weird is, I still have feelings for him, I know we've been broken apart for a long time,. But I just can't stop thinking of him, Every day he's on my mind. And I just have this hope that one day we will reunite. My question is do you think it's posible that we are. I believe that we are soulmates and for some reason I just can't move on.
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hey there,
ok firstly let me say how I understand how hard this is. ive been there,and ive watched my friend go through it with a guy whos been messing her around for over 2years,shes still not over him and she wishes she had backed out sooner.
honestly im going to be blunt you can't keep living in hope that one day you will reunite.. dont fool your self and dont put your life on hold waiting around.
I know you still have feelings but you honestly have to move on. its easy to say youve tried but ask yourself have you really?
every time he comes into your thoughts distract yourself call a friend do something to take your mind off him keep busy.
start going out more with friends doing the things you love doing and buy doing this soon you dont even begin to realise how little you think of him anymore to the point where you dont.
and youl eventually be able to think of him and laugh and say hey im so over you.
I know it may seem like it now but please trust me ive gone through it I know im only young but I do understand.
hes gone his seperate way,now you go yours.
get back out there maybe one day some other guy will come along without you even expecting it and he will make you sudenly forget about your ex thats what people kept telling me would happen i never thought it would but it did!
if in time who knows you two could end up together down the line in the future but for now your still young and you need to expierience different relationships and move on. if they dont work out like I said who knows but for now just leave it in the past.
I hope I made some sense and helped in any way,
any more questions please inbox me!
good luck && much <3
Jess 16/f
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I've have fought your battles and I still am... But honey I must say please move on... It's been over a year... And he's back togeather with his ex now... And their living togeather... You don't know... They couldbe planing to have kids togeather... Or even getting married... Have you ever heard of the saying if you love something let it go... If it comes back it's yours but if it doesn't it never was... Well maybe he never was... And you need to move on with your life... I believe that you continue to think of him because you want to... Theres a great guy out there for you... Maybe it could be him maybe not... Only time will tell but untill then move on... Best of luck to you
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