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he doesnt want to see me...
Posted Wednesday September 16 2009, 8:45 pm
hey, my bf and i have been going out for 9 months now and ive noticed in the last few months he doesnt ask to see me anymore. i dont know what to do about it. ive tried not asking to see him, i waited a month and i gave up cause i missed him too much. ive also talked to him about it in one of my bad moods. and now i refuse to be the one to text him first.how can i make him want to see me more? am i too available to him? im also going to malaysia next month and i wont be able to talk to him for 2 1/2 weeks, do you think that'll make him want to see me more? help me! i dont know what to do
btw im 16f, he is 17m
thanks
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so there is this girl..
Posted Wednesday September 16 2009, 7:42 pm
(IM A GIRL) There is this girl at my shcool that i really like. she is super cute and has a great personality. we text like everynightt but i dont know if she is in to me. im not really open about kinda being bicurious so i dont know if she knows that im like that. but how do u know when the girl likes you? and how do you get a girl to like you
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Whens the time?
Posted Wednesday September 16 2009, 7:09 pm
Well i'm 16 and i have this boyfriend and we've only been going out for about a month and a half but we've been really close friends and not the lil yeah yeah we were close friends whatever type of deal, like we really hung out played video games talked on the phone had classes together, everything, for about 8 months. I know him really well and i get to see him a lot. Like practically everyday, we've done everything from going to the movies on a double date to takin naps together. I'm comfortable with him in public as my boyfriend and comfortable alone and intimate as not so much crazy making out but more opening myself up to him. I've let him get to second base already but i'm not sure if i should let him get further, you know like let hi...
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hate texting
Posted Wednesday September 16 2009, 5:46 pm
so me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year. we live like a half hour away and go to different schools so we only get to see each other like once, twice a week if we're lucky. we've made things work cause we love each other. buuutt i have one problem:
he used to text me all of the time like pretty much everyday during the first 5 months we were dating, after that he barely ever texts me, like im the one who has to text first and sometimes i dont even get a reply or he replies like a day later or something..idk...he says he just doesn't like texting, but i like to talk to him and stuff during the week. some nights we talk on the phone but we do that once a week, if that. i've told him i want to text and stuff but it jus...
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Help! I'm becoming a snoop.
Posted Wednesday September 16 2009, 3:58 pm
Early on in our relationship, my now live-in boyfriend of 1.5 years admitted to me that he had cheated on almost every girlfriend he had ever had. But since we fell in love a few months later, he swears up and down that I am different - that he would never cheat. He says he loves me, respects me, and that we have a long future together. To my knowledge, he has never given me a reason not to believe him.
Despite all this, I find myself becoming more and more suspicious of him as time goes by. I secretly look at photos of his old girlfriends on his computer, I google them, and I am especially obsessed with one old flame in particular - a girl I know he has cheated with in past relationships. I look at her blog, dream about them...
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does he like me?
Posted Wednesday September 16 2009, 12:18 pm
sorry if this is long ..
to start with there is a guy i like called jared. i have known him for months now and we have just been flirtin and hanging out together .. anyways we had a fall out last month and although we have kinda made up .. things r still rocky between us .. im not sure how to take things he says and i dont know if he likes me anymore (just after we made up he said sorry and that he really liked me) we dont talk much anymore .. he will text me and ask how am i then i reply and he doesnt respond .. but whenever i see him he is always like "laurennnn" and will try hugging and kissing me. i dont know what to do, is he thinking we should just be friends now?
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I'm horrible with these things...
Posted Wednesday September 16 2009, 8:50 am
There's this girl in my class, and we were just sitting around talking, and she pulled a dollar out of her purse while she was digging for her phone and set it down for a minute, so i took and my uncle had taught me how to, so i made a ring out of it because i was bored, lol, and i set it back down. she smiled, and took it and was like, "aw, yes, i will" and we started laughing about it. Well anyways, later, i was singing 'I Want to Hold Your Hand', by the beatles, and i got to the part and said, "i hope you'll understand" and she was like, "I understand!"
Those are two specific things, but we flirt sometimes, and I asked her for her number so I could text her, and she gave it to me, but maybe just becau...
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He doesn't know I'm a girl..
Posted Wednesday September 16 2009, 8:37 am
I'm a 20 year old transexual FtM[female to male]. I met this boy, whom I've seem to have fallen for. The only problem is, he thinks I'm a boy. Worst part is, he's gay. He likes me a lot, but I'm too scared to tell him the truth. He has no interest in females, what-so-ever. I don't know what to do. I know I need to tell him, but how do I do it? How do I tell him that I'm not that amazing guy he thinks I am? I'm worried. He hurts himself; cuts himself. He injured himself because he has a boyfriend and can't be with me. I'm afraid that he'll do a lot worse if I tell him I'm not a boy. What do I do?
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long sorry. but my life is complicated
Posted Wednesday September 16 2009, 1:41 am
Okay, so here's the story.
I'm 15/f and my ex boyfriend is 15 too. When we were about 7 months into the relationship, I became pregnant, I decided to keep the baby. This put a lot of stress on the relationship. We went out for just about a year. I decided it was time to breakup with him because I was feeling like that was the right thing to do at the time. I regret it extremely, but it's something I have to live with. I do still believe we have feelings for each other.
(With the pregnancy thing, please don't judge me, I used protection, and I still don't regret having sex with him.)
The problem is, I've had 4 boys in my life before, and each was different, and I learned sort of how to compare one to th...
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Going Nuts.
Posted Wednesday September 16 2009, 12:43 am
So here's my situation. I started working at this sub shop back in June and I found out that one of the other employees was my brother's good friend. I'm 17, he's 20.
At first I thought he was...just not my type. I'm a straight-A student, graduated from high school 2 years early, pre-med, getting my AA degree next May, drank for the first time last June, hates drugs, etc. All that good stuff. Oh and I've never had a boyfriend or my first kiss. I'm not a prude and I'm not a loser--I just have met a lot of loser guys and I haven't had any interest in any that have liked me back.
So on a few nights at work that weren't busy we started talking and our conversations got...pretty deep. We talked about our opinions ...
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why am i still crazy about him...?
Posted Wednesday September 16 2009, 12:14 am
Okay so this guy screwed me over, totally used me, cheated on me, broke my heart, posted these half naked pictures of himself on fb (what a douche, right?) and i STILL like him. what the hell?
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lesbian issues! age difference, bisexuality, and more.
Posted Tuesday September 15 2009, 11:08 pm
okay. so i'm a junior, i've been out for two years now. my school's very gay-friendly.
a freshman girl caught my eye. i really suspect she's bicurious but to the best of my knowledge she hasn't 'done anything' before. i have a class with her and we flirt pretty mercilessly. i intend to ask her to a movie or something with friends.
speaking of friends, in my information-gathering a few people told me she acts like a whore. this doesn't bother me much but is perhaps something to take into account.
so is it ethical for me to date someone two years younger?
and do you have any other advice?
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Relationship Problems...What to do?
Posted Tuesday September 15 2009, 9:02 pm
Okay. School started for us on August 25th. And i ran into an old friend at a new school that i had transferred to. I haven't seen him in about six years. So we talked...and it seemed like the relationship began to grow and everything, and we started talking. About a week in a half later, he told me that he was feeling guilty. When i asked him why he said, because before i even came along, he had full intentions of dating one of his old girlfriends, and her the same. He also told me that he had some relationship problems. So reluctantly, i told him that he needed to go back to her and work it out. It hurt me to say so, but i was thinking about her and how she should be feeling. And then about a few days later, I heard that she was talking a...
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Should I stay married?
Posted Tuesday September 15 2009, 9:02 pm
I am wondering if I should stay married? To make a long story short My husband has never acted like he is in love with me. We are not affectionate and intimacy seems robotic and a chore. I have caught him in many white lies I have caught him hitting on other women (while he is drunk) and he hid a facebook page for over a year and deleted it after I found out and lied about a co-worker who was younger. I have snooped as a result of the lies and have never found anything horrible he just acts suspicious. He has stopped drinking and claims to be completely honest. I am waiting for the next ball to drop and not sure if I want to go on like this anymore but I am afraid I will throw it all away and he truly wants to change now. I feel like...
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Girl who sits in front of me.
Posted Tuesday September 15 2009, 8:50 pm
hi im 16, a boy.
there is this really...reallly attractive girl who sits in front of me in class. I mean, the first thing i noticed was her body, which is really nice, she looks like...wow. i cant even say, she looks amazing. For some reason, this girl seems like the kind that i dont wanna give up on.
We never talked before, we only like look at each other once in a while. But i have no idea what she thinks. What does she think? How should i approach her? There is homecoming dance pretty soon btw.
any advice?????????
and please dont give me an obvious answer like "just talk to her"
I WANT DETAILS!
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Posted Tuesday September 15 2009, 7:15 pm
Okay so i can't get this kid out of my head, we had a thing about three months ago. But now its just compleatly over,we're just friends now. But LATELY..out of randomness, those feelings are coming back really strongly for him! The thing is, i usually can TELL when guys like me, i mean i feel like i have a sixth sence with this, i'm really good at judging it XD. So i keep getting vibes he likes me again and is thinking about me too-thats why I'M thinking about HIM. Because all in all he's not really that great now that i think about it, but for some reason he wont stop getting into my head? I keep having thoughts that he HAS to tell me something- but is to scared too. So i'm wondering have you ever felt this way? And if someones thinking ab...
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sexx probss
Posted Tuesday September 15 2009, 6:51 pm
last night i gave my bf a bj and he said he liked it, but then he said he wanted to go farther and i said you will find out tomorrow....should i do it??? im 14 btw
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kisskisskiss
Posted Tuesday September 15 2009, 6:49 pm
ok so like if u go out to eat and then you kiss your boyfriend right after, wouldnt the kiss like taste bad or something????
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What is WRONG with him?!
Posted Tuesday September 15 2009, 5:54 pm
15/F
This might be a tad long. :\ Anyway, here's the whole story... I dated this boy when I was 13. After a while, he just made me upset because he was a total pervert and kept touching me. So, we broke up. He said he changed, and being the gulible and new-to-dating girl I was, I tried again. This time, I told him PLEASE, no touchy feely stuff until we're deeper into our relationship. Well, I invited him over one day after school so we could just watch a movie. After a few minutes, he tried to kiss me. With tongue, yes. It scared the crap out of me, so I just jumped back. He said he was sorry. I didn't buy it, but I decided to let it slid. The second thing that happened, made me very nervous. There's this other boy at our sch...
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what is my title?
Posted Tuesday September 15 2009, 4:01 pm
I am a girl and i am straight. but i happened to be atracted to this lesbian at my school and i have been with a girl b4. we didnt date we kinda just fooled around. i know i like guys and that im gonna marry one but why am i attractied to a girl? i know i could never like do shit sexually to a girl but i could be with one casue i like there personalitys. so would i label myself a bi?
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