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What is WRONG with him?!
15/F
This might be a tad long. :\ Anyway, here's the whole story... I dated this boy when I was 13. After a while, he just made me upset because he was a total pervert and kept touching me. So, we broke up. He said he changed, and being the gulible and new-to-dating girl I was, I tried again. This time, I told him PLEASE, no touchy feely stuff until we're deeper into our relationship. Well, I invited him over one day after school so we could just watch a movie. After a few minutes, he tried to kiss me. With tongue, yes. It scared the crap out of me, so I just jumped back. He said he was sorry. I didn't buy it, but I decided to let it slid. The second thing that happened, made me very nervous. There's this other boy at our school who is known for his notorious talent for getting girls into bed.
So, my boyfriend seemed to be getting friendly with him and at first, I didn't think anything of it. I mean, I sort of liked the player boy anyway... Bad, I know. But then in the hallway, I let my boyfriend hug me since I was cold and stuff. Well, this player comes down the hallway with his girlfriend and winks at my boyfriend saying, "Good. One step closer, pal." That made me nervous and angry. I asked what it was about, but my boyfriend just shrugged and replied with, "It's boy stuff."
Eventually, we broke up because I knew what he was planning from the way he was acting. Well, when we broke up, I told him I just didn't like the touchy feely things HE was doing (groping, etc). He told me he thought I was talking about emotions! Touchy feely means exactly what it says and I couldn't believe he used that excuse with me. Now it's our sophomore year and he's telling everyone that I used him! He's given me the nickname of 'Parasite', stating that I suck the life out of a boy and throw him away! And just the other day, he threw something at me and gave me a smug look. I really don't know what to do about this boy and he's really bothering me! What do I do?!
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I don't even know you and I am proud of you. Your parents would be proud. You should never have sex or do anything with a boy if you know you aren't personally ready to. However, most girls do it anyways, to fit in or just not to lose a guy they really care about. I'm happy to hear you stuck to your beliefs of not being ready till you were more serious. This guy is incrediably immature! My best guess is he doesnt want ppl to know that you didn't sleep with him, he prob feels like it will make him look bad or not as popular (which is stupid). My best advice for you is to totally ignore him. Act like you never even dated him whenever he does something mean to you. If anyone at school asks you what happened, be truthful tell them all he wanted was sex, that your better than that and told him to bounce. You will look very mature. It will show how you respect yourself. If he continues or it gets worse and more inappropiate consult a teacher or guidance counselor, even your parents, they will be able to help you. In the meantime, good job respecting yourself girl!
*Meg*
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wow. he sounds like a wanker, im glad you didnt stay with him though. you should never be with someone who doesnt respect what you think and say. im not really sure what you could do about him, i would say just ignore him, but then everyone says that and it doesnt always work. maybe you should try finding someone else, this boy might leave you alone after that. someone who loves you for who you are and wont tollerate other people treating you like crap like this guy does. im not sure what you could do sorry. maybe talk to your parents about it, or a close friend who can stand up for you at school. its always good to talk to people you know well about this sort of stuff. sorry if this doesnt help
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