Question Posted Tuesday September 15 2009, 9:02 pm
Okay. School started for us on August 25th. And i ran into an old friend at a new school that i had transferred to. I haven't seen him in about six years. So we talked...and it seemed like the relationship began to grow and everything, and we started talking. About a week in a half later, he told me that he was feeling guilty. When i asked him why he said, because before i even came along, he had full intentions of dating one of his old girlfriends, and her the same. He also told me that he had some relationship problems. So reluctantly, i told him that he needed to go back to her and work it out. It hurt me to say so, but i was thinking about her and how she should be feeling. And then about a few days later, I heard that she was talking about me and saying stuff like "I don't like her ass." and "I don't know who she think she is trying to get with him." And that hurt me even worse. I'm still in love with him, and he keeps saying the same to me. So i guess you can say i'm in a tug-of-war deal with all this. I've sacrificed everything for him. But i mean, if he's saying all this to me, then what's stopping us from being us...It just hurts me whenever i see them walking in the halls, or hugging and everything...i just love him so much...Please help. What do you think i should do?
Katlyn answered Wednesday September 16 2009, 2:30 am: I know you love him and all but you have to let him have his happiness with his gf first it wouldnt be rite for you to step in and steal him from her especially if she really likes him just put yourself in her position if someone did that to you how would you feel so let them be and move on or wait until there over and then get with him and im sure if he loves you and not her then the relationship wont last very long and you will have your chance soon but for now wait and let them experience there relationship and let them realize if its going to work out. [ Katlyn's advice column | Ask Katlyn A Question ]
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