Question Posted Tuesday September 15 2009, 4:01 pm
I am a girl and i am straight. but i happened to be atracted to this lesbian at my school and i have been with a girl b4. we didnt date we kinda just fooled around. i know i like guys and that im gonna marry one but why am i attractied to a girl? i know i could never like do shit sexually to a girl but i could be with one casue i like there personalitys. so would i label myself a bi?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Sami143 answered Tuesday September 15 2009, 6:13 pm: I would say that your straight. Honestly i dont know too many girls that hasnt been attracted to a girl or ever not done anything with a girl. Your just curious and your trying to figure out who you are. There is nothing wrong with how your feeling so dont worry! I would still label yourself as stright unless your want yourself to be bi. honestly its completly up to you!
XReiSenseiX answered Tuesday September 15 2009, 5:28 pm: I've had the same problem. In fact, just last year the same thing happened, ironically enough. Anyway, don't label yourself in public. I suggest you don't label yourself at all, but... If you do the labels, then I think bi-curious is more appropriate because during your teenage years, you are curious about who you are. Bi-curious merely means you want to experiment. And, good thing about not doing the sexual stuff. I highly suggest you don't try that stuff... Hope I helped some. ^^ [ XReiSenseiX's advice column | Ask XReiSenseiX A Question ]
itdependsonyoux3 answered Tuesday September 15 2009, 5:13 pm: You don't have to label yourself as anything, to be completly honest. you are who you are and you don't need to define yourself, nor does anyone else HAVE to or should define you.
But if you really want to know. You are most likely bi-curious. there's a difference between being BISEXUAL and bi-CURIOUS. When you "label" yourslef as bisexual, you definetly know that you like both sexes, but if you are bi-curious, then you don't really LIKE both sexes, you're just attracted to both and trying to figure it out. ahaha, kinda like testing the waters, yuh know ?
Anyways, you'll figure it out, eventually. everyone does :]
good luck ! have fun, and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me. hope i helped ! xxo.
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