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why am i still crazy about him...?
Okay so this guy screwed me over, totally used me, cheated on me, broke my heart, posted these half naked pictures of himself on fb (what a douche, right?) and i STILL like him. what the hell?
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Were you sleeping with him? If yes, there's your answer. Sex isn't just a physical act (at least for women). When you have sex with someone you are actually giving away a piece of yourself. Now that the guy is gone, he's taken off with a HUGE piece of you. So, naturally, its hard to untangle yourself from that so quickly, no matter how jerkish he is. My only advice here is to do your best to avoid ANYTHING to do with him. Don't call him, email him, surf his FB or Myspace or anything like that. You need time to get over him and any kind of contact with him is only torture for you. Find something else to throw yourself, like work, friends, activities, anything to take your mind off of him. And remember (I know this sounds old-fashioned, but it works) sex is for two people who are in a long-term, loving and committed relationship. If you reserve sex for that, you'll find a great guy who loves you for YOU and wants to treat you with the love and respect you deserve. Good luck.
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I think you still like him because maybe you had something special with him before he did all that he did and maybe he was the first guy you had such special feelings for so i mite take awhile to get over him no matter how bad of a thing he did your gonna like him until you move on of convince youself that this guy is a total retard and eventually just thinking about him will piss you off so give it time you will start to hate him
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