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x Three??
Posted Monday October 12 2009, 2:46 am
OK, well There are these two guys who take the same course as me. They're unseparable and the best of friends.... Always together laughing smiling. Well I just got over a painful breakup a few months ago and I thought I really liked one of them.... But then I started thinking of the other one, and now i'm not sure it's love, but i'm heavily attracted to both of them, and now I don't think of one of them but both of them together!! I have no idea what to do, it's one thing talking to one of them, but I can't seriously talk to both of them....
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Old Loves..
Posted Sunday October 11 2009, 11:21 pm
I am 18 years old currently seeing a man for about 3 months now. Nothing has been made official, and i'd like to make it that way.. Problem: His last girlfriend of two years left him so "emotionally damaged" he says he'll never be as happy with me as he was with her. He's afraid to get into a realtionship, obviously. I can't just leave him because i've never felt this way about anyone before. If anyone has any advice or wants to know more, let me know, Thanks!
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does he like me?
Posted Sunday October 11 2009, 10:52 pm
15/f
so there is this guy kody who has a girlfriend but he seems to flirt with me ALOT! and i really like him and i dont know what to do i mean im kind of friends with his girlfriend so i dont want to be mean and like flirt back - but i kind of do anyway, and it seems like he's always finding ways to talk to me and were in a class together and i always catch him looking at me and laughing at my jokes and stuff.
but idk what to do or if he is just actually being friendly any advice?
thanks :)
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Does a guy's "package" get warm when he has an erection?
Posted Sunday October 11 2009, 8:55 pm
I was laying on my boyfriend on a couch, we were both on our backs. We hadn't even kissed that whole day. He was playing with my hands, and I realized his pants (where his junk is) was really warm. I didn't want to look because that would make him feel awkward. What does this mean?
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to text or not to text?
Posted Sunday October 11 2009, 6:34 pm
I just got out of a semi long term relationship, so I kind of need a refresher on how to date. I've been hanging out with this guy every day for the last two weeks, and for about a week we've been kissing and whatnot. I've slept over at his apartment the past three nights (no sex) because he asked me to stay with him. Since us hanging out has kind of become a nightly thing, I sort of was surprised when he didn't invite me over last night. I didn't want to text him and seem clingy, plus it was kind of nice to just hang out with my roommates, but now I've been wondering why he didn't ask me over and all that good stuff. So my question is...do I text him and tell him I kind of missed hanging out last night? Or would that make me look too cling...
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i like a cop
Posted Sunday October 11 2009, 4:57 pm
Im 19 and the cop is 22
I have recently meet a guy who is a cop. I meet him at my job he comes to get therapy at my job. Is been about 2 weeks we are talking more often..but the main reason we initially started talking was because i have to do an essay assigment for my college class that involves a ride-along with a police department. So i told him that i havent got any response from the other department and what should i do. So he automatically told me to go to his department and do the application and request for him, that he will do the ride-along with me. long story short...now that we talk a little more im starting to like him. But my main question is how should i talk to him, he is a cop and i never liked a cop before??..i mean...
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6 years older than me!
Posted Sunday October 11 2009, 4:49 pm
I really really really like this guy. I know im a little young but I'm starting to think he could be the one maybe. The only problem is that I'm 13 and hes 19. That is so weird right? Or do people date even though there that far apart? I can't really talk about this with anyone cause his mom is my moms best friend and his sister is one of my friends (not best friend but were defently friends). Our personalitys are like exactly the same. We have know each other for along time. I've liked him since I was like 7. Do you think its weird for me to like a guy that is 6 years older than me? My parents are 8 or 9 years apart but I dont always think that they married eachother for love. I really like this guy. I constantly think about him. So what should I do? Am I too young for him?
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Boyfriend doesnt want marriage?
Posted Sunday October 11 2009, 2:45 pm
Hey. I am 17/f and he is 19/m. We have been dating for almost 3 years. He's a sophomore in college, and im a senior in high school. My entire life, all I've wanted to do is be an elementary teacher, and to be a mother and a wife. Im a nurturer. I cannot imagine a life without children and a family. I love cooking and i can deal with cleaning. Strangely, my dream is to be a housewife in a place somewhat south, such as North Carolina or something near there.. Although we haven't talked about it in-depth, only small hypothetical things, because i don't plan on marriage or children until i graduate college, my boyfriend, chris, has made it perfectly clear he does NOT want kids, nor marriage. He said he just wants to, "act like we're marrie...
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how long does it take to get over someone?
Posted Sunday October 11 2009, 10:03 am
i was with someone for a year and a half and about a month and a half ago he broke up with me. i handled the situation pretty well and i've met someone new who i really like (he was always in a two year relationship and was broken up with).. but i often find myself comparing him to my ex. like, i'll be like "my ex would never do that for me." and i find that the new guy compares me to his recent ex as well..
are we both ready for a new relationship? do you think we're over our ex's?
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friend or boyfriend?!
Posted Sunday October 11 2009, 3:23 am
i'm a 19 year old girl in a huge tug of war emotionally. my boyfriend and i are either going to stay together or break up over this. i have been in a relationship for 2 years and during this time i lost a friend over a petty lie. he lied to me about something stupid and now my boyfriend completely distrusts him although i now realize it was a petty lie that i no longer care about and i want to be friends with him again. i have known my friend for 15 years! however, my boyfriend says he cannot allow me to be friends with him again and pretty much said its me or him. should i pick the person that love with all every inch of my heart, or my friend who i've known for 15 years?
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does he like me?
Posted Saturday October 10 2009, 6:05 pm
so, last summer i had job in a small cafe, and there was this guy who worked there too. we didn't see/talk much, but when we did, we used to smile a lot, and he's pretty hot. well, we go to the same school, and now me and my friends hang out at the place i used to work (he still works there), and whenevr we are there, he makes a big deal of coming to our table and asking us if we want anything. maybe im just reading too much into this, but i like him, and when we do talk, he's really nice, and very funny. i know we have a lot in common (tv, film, and especially music/ guitar) but how do i know if he just likes talking to me as a friend, or if he really does like me? and if he does, how to i get him to fianally ask me out, since he's fairly ...
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my boyfriend never kisses me!
Posted Saturday October 10 2009, 3:37 pm
14/f
im not thinking bout having sex or anything with my bf but it would be nice if he kissed me properly once in a while...
like the other day he walked me home (which is odd cos he usually does but theres other people with us)and we stopped on the corner just before my house and chatted and all that. i took a few pics of us on my phone and we just messed around but he only ever kisses me when i kiss him first and he never properly kisses me if you know what i mean. it would be nice if he would lol i know he loves me its not like that. you can see it in his eyes when i say bye or watever/
thanks xx
btw he's 15
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Husbands Ex
Posted Saturday October 10 2009, 1:41 pm
I have been on and off with my husband for almost 9 years, we have been married for one of those 9. We have a child together, our own home, and a happy life for the most part. Recently, my husbands ex, of just a few months, has gotten in contact with me to tell me that he told her everything that he tells me now. That they were engaged and still together when him and I got back together this last time. I asked my husband about this but he swears up and down she is lying just to start problems. She told me he bought her a ring and everything, and that she broke it after she found out he was with me. My husband has been known to lie, but so has this girl. I am not really sure who to believe at this point. I am so hurt and confused.
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how can you get a guys attention?
Posted Saturday October 10 2009, 1:19 pm
you can flirt with them but the sometimes flirt but its inoccent and some girl really like the person but the boy doesnt know so they just flirt back but its inoccent. so how do you get a guys attention so he can like you??
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What do guys look for in a girl?(only guys can answer)
Posted Saturday October 10 2009, 1:17 pm
okay first why do guys go for whores? like there can be pretty girl and they are no whores. and it really matters what is in the inside.. (well thats what i thought until i notice mad dope boys go out wit whores or ugly people lik what are they thinkin lol) well can someone tell me why guys mostly go for whores?
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talking to ex's
Posted Friday October 9 2009, 9:50 pm
I broke up with my boyfriend last weekend. We decided that we don't want to hate each other and want to be friends and talk but when would be a good time to talk? I'm over him except that I miss talking to him but I'm 90% sure he still loves me.
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attracting older guys/men
Posted Friday October 9 2009, 7:19 pm
how can i attract older men/guys? what do they like in women?
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2 crushes for 1???
Posted Friday October 9 2009, 1:22 pm
I usually ask questions about my crush for my friend on here (crush1) but i also had a crush for my other friend (crush2). My funny cute n random first crush is the one i cant get over even if i avoid him now the problem is my other friend whose nice funny loyal cool n collected is the one im getting feelings for to. We talk about alot of things and i can tell nearly anything to him he knows my first crush n that i like him (crush1) but doesnt know i like him (crush2) but i can tell that he likes me too but he has a girlfriend already what do i do i like both but crush1 sorta likes me n so does crush2??? Im so confused
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Is the saying, "Once a cheater, always a cheater," true?
Posted Friday October 9 2009, 4:58 am
My boyfriend confessed to me today that he cheated on me last weekend when he went out with his buddies. He said that he had sex with a strange girl that he met at a club/bar and he regrets doing it now. I still think he's lying about a few of the details because one of his buddies told me that they didn't go to just any club or a bar--they went to a strip club.
I'm really upset about it but my boyfriend says he's truly sorry and that it won't happen again. My best friend reminded me of the saying, "Once a cheater, always a cheater," and I am wondering if it's true. I don't think my boyfriend fully understands what his mistake has done to our relationship, and I don't know if I will be able to get over this betr...
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What to do...my wife wants to have sex with another man
Posted Friday October 9 2009, 4:38 am
Okay this is a bit complicated! I have always told my wife that I am open to a threesome with another man if it would make her happy. When we first got together she mentioned the idea, sort of playfully, and I took it as a serious thought of hers. I let her know that if things were going to be completely open between us then I would consider such things. I guess I didn't think she was truly serious.
Anyway, the last discussion about this sort of sexual fantasy was a month ago and she said, "No! Absolutely not!" and that she is married and only wants to be with me. To be honest, I was quite relieved. I have no sexual desire for me and I would prefer my wife to only be with me.
Well, about 3 days...
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