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does he like me?
so, last summer i had job in a small cafe, and there was this guy who worked there too. we didn't see/talk much, but when we did, we used to smile a lot, and he's pretty hot. well, we go to the same school, and now me and my friends hang out at the place i used to work (he still works there), and whenevr we are there, he makes a big deal of coming to our table and asking us if we want anything. maybe im just reading too much into this, but i like him, and when we do talk, he's really nice, and very funny. i know we have a lot in common (tv, film, and especially music/ guitar) but how do i know if he just likes talking to me as a friend, or if he really does like me? and if he does, how to i get him to fianally ask me out, since he's fairly shy, but maybe he's just uncertain...? thanx in advance xxx
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Why wait for him to ask you? If you really like this guy then there is nothing that says you can't make the first move! You will never know unless you take a chance, it could turn out to be one of the best decisions you make! Life is full of chances, opportunities, and risks....it's just up to each of us to decide which ones we take. Good luck!!
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You know, some of the best love relationships and longest love relationships have been between people who were friends first. When you get a little older, gee...I think that's what we all pray for. Good Luck and be yourself and tease him a little (not sexually)...just be friendly.
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Right now, him liking you sounds kind of blurry. I mean, he could have a secret crush on you, but he could also think of you as a friend and that's why he is being friendly. My advice to you is to just try to get to know him more. Then you might see if he likes you by the way he acts or he might even give you hints or actually tell you he likes you. And also, I think if you get to know him more, you'll see his different good/bad qualities that will either make you like him even more or see him as just a friend. So start talkin and getting to know him. Don't try to make him ask you out (or dont make it look obvious cuz that'll be awkward for him)...just go with the flow and everything will just happen.
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