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Age: 19
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Ok so I like this guy at my golf class. I really want to look good when I go to golf today. What can I do to look pretty while wearing a hat? I really dont want to wear makeup and all I can do with my hair is put it up in a pony tail cause of the hat. We arnt allowed to wear skirts, jeans, t-shirts, or really any shirt without a collar. So is there anything I can really do to look good without makeup or doing my hair or decent clothes? (link)
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You don't have to do this, but I suggest:
-if you're gonna have to wear a shirt with a collar, wear a cute one. Make it colorful, yet cute. Or get those blouse-like shirts with a collar.
-always wear a cute smile (chapstick helps) because looking friendly always makes a person look good.
-wear cute shoes...not high heels though.
as for your hair:
-if you're gonna wear a ponytail...make it look cute, like maybe curl it sometimes to make it look more girly. Or bring out some bangs on the side of your face (and maybe curl it a LITTLE)
-wear a side ponytail
-put your hair down so it's sleek and pretty...but the hair might get in your way
-put your hair up/half up and maybe put a cute headband with it
...hope that helps
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I'm 18 now, but my parents and I have stopped getting along so well since I was about 15. I miss it terribly.
They always say they're so good to me because they're always giving me things (it's true). I really do appreciate those things but I want more than material things from them. I want to feel loved. I want hugs and kisses and long talks about school and boys.
I'm always a little depressed over this. I know sometimes I give them a bit of an attitude because of this frustration. I want to explain to them that I need more than things bought for me. I want to develop a good relationship with them again.
How do I explain this to my parents? (link)
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I think you should just sit down with them and tell them what you think. Tell them what you just said here.
And you can also be more open to them. Like just gradually bring up what's happening in your life. First bring up something small, such as what you did at school...then if you keep talking, you'll eventually talk about more things.
And do some fun activities with them during the weekend. Just surprisingly be like "let's do something for the weekend"...you could start out with something small, like going to a cool restaurant...and maybe eventually you and your parents will be doing more bonding.
Just show them you care about them and that even though you appreciate the things they give, show them that your parents and their love are more important to you than any THING they give.
:)
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I've been with my boyfriend for almost three weeks, and people keep saying to me 'Awh, you and * look so cute together!' or things along those lines, and I'm not sure how I should respond. I mean, naturally I'm happy, but I'm just not sure what an appropriate response to that would be.
Any suggestions? :) (link)
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Just say "thank you", "cool", or smile. It's like a regular compliment...you can't really say anything back to a compliment so just be happy when people say you and your boyfriend look cute together :)
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I don't want to see my friends get hurt at all. I tend to get a little too involved and concerned though so I end up being really controlling and overprotective. This has backfired on me because then they are afraid to tell me things they would normally share with me. I just don't want any of them to be hurt by anyone/anything, but how can I learn to be less controlling? It's frustrating because I always feel like I need to take charge and make the situation "safe" for them...even if it means controlling every tiny detail! (link)
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First off, I think you are controlling/overprotective because you are a good friend. You care about the safety and feelings of your friends...I think that is a good thing...just dont become TOO controlling that they feel you are their boss, rather than a friend.
How to control yourself:....give your friends advice and tell them the right thing to do once or twice. BUT that's enough. After you have done your part already by showing you CARE and telling them what's right and wrong...let them make the decision for themselves. They may learn from their decisions/mistakes and realize you were right with your advices. I mean, they're going to have to make decisions in their lives (in the future)...and you will not always be with them. So you have to let them make their own decisions even after giving them a piece of your mind and concern.
You may be controlling but I still think you're doing that because you are a good friend...so just don't be too controlling, but still care and give them advice but let them make their own decisions after.
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18/f, tall, medium weight (not fat but don't want any crop tops), pale skin, dark brown eyes and hair
What could I be for Halloween? I want something sexy/hot but not showing my stomach, and preferably something I can do at home, since costumes from stores are expensive. I was thinking about Lolita...any ideas? (link)
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Oh Lolita would be really cute I think. Also some other cute characters/costumes I've seen are
-Alice (Alice in Wonderland)
-Tinkerbell
-Little Red Riding Hood
-Bumble bee
-Dorothy(from Wizard of Oz)
-Flintstones characters (ive seen some really cute costumes of those)
-Female Pirate
-Maid/nurse (more common, but can still look good)
-or just some kind of zombie bride or something dark
^All of those costumes would involve some kind of a dress which would be really cute and really simple to make..just get a dress and accessories and makeup. And plus since your tall, they would look nice to make your legs look longer. They are all sexy, but don't show too much skin...just as long as you don't wear a too short dress/skirt. lol
I think making your own costume would be great and you can get really creative.
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My sister is 15-years-old. We have had problems with her for years, she doesn't do anything anyone tells her, has screaming tantrums on a daily basis, steals from us and more recently has been kicked out of school.
Today I found out that she is pregnant by her boyfriend of six months. I am absolutely livid. This is my final year of school and I will be taking important exams around the time that the baby is due. It is also my 18th birthday next week, which is a pretty big deal as I live in the UK, and we were planning a big party with family and friends. Obviously this is now being completely overshadowed.
I know I'm being selfish for just thinking about myself but for years I have suffered as a result of her behaviour, baring the brunt of my parents' anger and finding it really difficult to stay at home as the constant noise and arguments are too much. This feels like the last straw. This year is so important for me and instead of fully supporting me, my parents are going to be preoccupied with this.
I know she might not even end up having the baby as it is very early days and she hasn't made any decisions yet, but I am furious with both her and my parents, who I partially blame for this. Ever since she got together with her boyfriend I told my parents I didn't think it was a good idea to let her stay at his house and that she wasn't using protection but no one listened to me. They are now angry with me for being upset. My sister and I had a bad relationship anyway but now I don't want her anywhere near me. As far as I'm concerned she has ruined what is going to be one of the most important years of my life.
What should I do? I honestly don't think I can bare being anywhere near her, let alone live with her, especially if she decides to keep the baby. I can hardly look at my parents because I'm so angry about their attitude and the way they're dealing with it. (link)
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She didn't ruin your life. And besides look at you: you are 18 years old, almost done with school, you have a whole life ahead of you. Think of it this way, would you rather be in your sister's shoes?
Give your sister a chance and show her some support. She is afterall your sister and since your the older and smarter one, you have to show her that you care for her. Who knows, maybe you'll end up loving your sister and her baby.
Right now, she needs your support despite her past mistakes. I understand your suffering and it is hard to deal with anger with your sister. I don't think your parents want to take your fun away on purpose. They're probably heart broken too with what happened with your sister and it's hard for them to take it. This is a difficult time in your family and you should really just understand and support your sister. Understand how your parents are feeling too.
I hope all turns out well for you and your family.
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So I kinda like this kid who's more on the nerdy side and not so "hot" side.
I'm more popular and have a lot of friends,yet for some reason I like this kid.
He supposedly liked me a few weeks ago and i didnt tell him i liked him but i didnt tell him i didnt.
we usually talk everyday online but like sometimes he doesnt talk to me first and i don't know if he still likes me,because if he does...then he might just not wanna be annoying.
I'm really good friends with one of his best friends and So i guess ill talk to him and see what the deal is.
The kid also talks to all my friends,never announcing that he likes them but implying that they are really pretty and stuff,and im sure he talks to them as well.
It's a weird situation.
What should I do? (link)
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Honestly, it doesn't matter whether you're popular or not and if he's popular or not. Just forget about status when it comes to liking a guy because the person is all that matters and not his popularity.
I think the kid wants to know you more. He may like you and he might just be too shy to say hi to you online first because afterall, you are the popular one. So he might be a little intimidated to be the one to make a move. He might just be all friendly to your friends because he might want to know you.
I think you should give him a chance and get to know him more. Talk to him. Be his friend. Show him your true self and your real personality because that's what he will notice. Don't ever be afraid of what people will think.
I wish you the best.
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okay, please hear me out i need help. my cousin's friend is really good-looking and cool. he likes me a lot. he says such nice things and we get along well. the thing is... we only talk on AIM. we want to hang out though. im 16 years old and im not stupid about this kind of stuff... im not getting into anything cause i know he might me ifferent in person. he doesnt go to my school but i will be able to drive in the beginning of this year. he wants to talk on the phone. should i even bother ? (link)
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It's really hard to tell if a guy really likes you when it's on AIM/online even if he really seems like it. It's also hard to know about his real personality just online.
If you really want to meet him, I think the safest way is to meet him with your cousin. Afterall, he is your cousin's friend. Maybe bring along other friends too so you guys can have a big hang out and so something fun together. Then, you'll get to know your cousin's friend and have fun with a lot of people.
Hope all goes well
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you can flirt with them but the sometimes flirt but its inoccent and some girl really like the person but the boy doesnt know so they just flirt back but its inoccent. so how do you get a guys attention so he can like you?? (link)
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To be honest, flirting doesn't automatically make a guy like you. It's a natural thing, especially for guys.
Just be true to guys and get to know them first. Talk to them and get to know their character or even start out as friends. Maybe a relationship or a crush might develop and the guy might start to like you. If not and he only likes you as a friend, then oh well. Most importantly, be yourself because you want a guy to like you for YOU, right?
Hope that helps
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14/f
im not thinking bout having sex or anything with my bf but it would be nice if he kissed me properly once in a while...
like the other day he walked me home (which is odd cos he usually does but theres other people with us)and we stopped on the corner just before my house and chatted and all that. i took a few pics of us on my phone and we just messed around but he only ever kisses me when i kiss him first and he never properly kisses me if you know what i mean. it would be nice if he would lol i know he loves me its not like that. you can see it in his eyes when i say bye or watever/
thanks xx
btw he's 15 (link)
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Hey
You could probably just ask him why he never kisses you first. Since it sounds like he likes you, he might have a cute reason, like he could be shy or uncomfortable with kissing for now. Over time (hopefully), he will start kissing you and maybe improve his kissing skills. Just be open to him but don't force him if he's uncomfortable with it for now. It will develop over time.
I wish you two the best.
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best ways to slim body (link)
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just eat right and in moderation. Dont be afraid to eat cookies, brownies, pizza....but in moderation and not everyday because if you deprive yourself of good foods, you might binge when you actually start eating them again.
Also, live an active life...as in exercise at least 2-3 times a week or have enough exercises. And instead of driving short distances to a place, you could either ride your bike or walk. (It's also good for the environment). Get out and play some sports with friends for fun, or to the park, walk in the city. Living active and having fun will do you body good without you feeling it's an exercise.
And...smile and live a happy life. Research says that depression can lead to obesity so be happy and smile :)
Hope that helps.
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16/f
usually, im the girl thats very outgoin, funny, and easy to get along with. when i go to a party or concert i meet a ton of people and im really comfortable with myself.
now that ive been pregnant, im reeallly self-conscious and awkward/anxious when i meet new people and stuff. im not visibly pregnant unless you knew me before (im 4 1/2 months) so its not because people know im pregnant.
its all me, and i dont know what to do ! i still want to go to parties and social gatherings, not drinking ofcourse, without feeling so awkward.
how can i help myself when im out and start feelin anxious or awkward ? (link)
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You should know and believe that you are a beautiful, special, and fun girl with a great personality. Teenage pregnancy (are you a teenager?) is seen as a negative thing in our society, but really stop worrying about what people might think. We all make mistakes and some of our lifestyles may be frowned upon by some people. BUT You know yourself more than they do. Just be fun, outgoing self and show people that pregnancy doesn't stop you from being the awesome person that you are.
I wish you the BEST.
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so, last summer i had job in a small cafe, and there was this guy who worked there too. we didn't see/talk much, but when we did, we used to smile a lot, and he's pretty hot. well, we go to the same school, and now me and my friends hang out at the place i used to work (he still works there), and whenevr we are there, he makes a big deal of coming to our table and asking us if we want anything. maybe im just reading too much into this, but i like him, and when we do talk, he's really nice, and very funny. i know we have a lot in common (tv, film, and especially music/ guitar) but how do i know if he just likes talking to me as a friend, or if he really does like me? and if he does, how to i get him to fianally ask me out, since he's fairly shy, but maybe he's just uncertain...? thanx in advance xxx (link)
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Right now, him liking you sounds kind of blurry. I mean, he could have a secret crush on you, but he could also think of you as a friend and that's why he is being friendly. My advice to you is to just try to get to know him more. Then you might see if he likes you by the way he acts or he might even give you hints or actually tell you he likes you. And also, I think if you get to know him more, you'll see his different good/bad qualities that will either make you like him even more or see him as just a friend. So start talkin and getting to know him. Don't try to make him ask you out (or dont make it look obvious cuz that'll be awkward for him)...just go with the flow and everything will just happen.
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