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socially awkward while pregnant
16/f
usually, im the girl thats very outgoin, funny, and easy to get along with. when i go to a party or concert i meet a ton of people and im really comfortable with myself.
now that ive been pregnant, im reeallly self-conscious and awkward/anxious when i meet new people and stuff. im not visibly pregnant unless you knew me before (im 4 1/2 months) so its not because people know im pregnant.
its all me, and i dont know what to do ! i still want to go to parties and social gatherings, not drinking ofcourse, without feeling so awkward.
how can i help myself when im out and start feelin anxious or awkward ?
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You should know and believe that you are a beautiful, special, and fun girl with a great personality. Teenage pregnancy (are you a teenager?) is seen as a negative thing in our society, but really stop worrying about what people might think. We all make mistakes and some of our lifestyles may be frowned upon by some people. BUT You know yourself more than they do. Just be fun, outgoing self and show people that pregnancy doesn't stop you from being the awesome person that you are.
I wish you the BEST.
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well, the problem is most likely due to social norms about teen pregnancy. people usually frown on that in developed countries. if they can't tell you've got a bun in the oven just try not to think about it. to be frank, who cares what they think? so what if some old codger is saying "whore" in his head, fuck em. you've got a lot more important things to be worrying about than that.
good luck
-Gunner
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