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my boyfriend never kisses me!
14/f
im not thinking bout having sex or anything with my bf but it would be nice if he kissed me properly once in a while...
like the other day he walked me home (which is odd cos he usually does but theres other people with us)and we stopped on the corner just before my house and chatted and all that. i took a few pics of us on my phone and we just messed around but he only ever kisses me when i kiss him first and he never properly kisses me if you know what i mean. it would be nice if he would lol i know he loves me its not like that. you can see it in his eyes when i say bye or watever/
thanks xx
btw he's 15
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You could probably just ask him why he never kisses you first. Since it sounds like he likes you, he might have a cute reason, like he could be shy or uncomfortable with kissing for now. Over time (hopefully), he will start kissing you and maybe improve his kissing skills. Just be open to him but don't force him if he's uncomfortable with it for now. It will develop over time.
I wish you two the best.
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I am a great deal older than most of the advisers on this site, so my advice will be somewhat different from what you have received and may continue to receive from others.
Boys can be funny when it comes to girls. Some boys may be shy; some may not know how to kiss or may be embarrassed in how they kiss.
When I was your boyfriends age or a little older I had a girlfriend who got upset because I never touched her, with my hands. One night she finally asked me. I told her it was because my hands were always dirty. Not with dirt you couldn’t wash off but with ground in grime I could never get out and I was always afraid I would get her or her clothes dirty. You see I worked part time in a gas station as an auto mechanic an I had the ground in grime to prove it. She was a very bright young girl and she said to me; “its honest dirt and I will be able to wash off whatever rubs off on me”.
Nothing ever came of our relationship but she taught me something that night. Now looking back I realize how easily something that trivial got between me and a very nice girl. The problem with your boyfriend could be just as trivial. Does he wear braces? If he does maybe he thinks he will hurt you if he tries to kiss you. It could be that simple. Sometimes a girl has to take the lead with young guys’ especially young boys who are polite and considerate of your feelings. Those are ones who are going to be the most easily embarrassed by their own actions or as they see it short comings.
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maybe hes shy??or doesnt like to kiss in public as it embarasses him..just ask him about it thats how youll truly find out. i could list many reasons but then thatl just leave you with choosing one that might not even be the reason.let him know how you feel i mean ofcourse itd feel good if he kissed you firts, youd feel wnated i understand so just ask him, go for it
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