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2 crushes for 1???
I usually ask questions about my crush for my friend on here (crush1) but i also had a crush for my other friend (crush2). My funny cute n random first crush is the one i cant get over even if i avoid him now the problem is my other friend whose nice funny loyal cool n collected is the one im getting feelings for to. We talk about alot of things and i can tell nearly anything to him he knows my first crush n that i like him (crush1) but doesnt know i like him (crush2) but i can tell that he likes me too but he has a girlfriend already what do i do i like both but crush1 sorta likes me n so does crush2??? Im so confused
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well I think you should always respect even more a persons relationship. Now im not trying to be mean or rough on you. I wouldnt let my feelings get too deep for the crush with a girlfriend...see sometimes what happens is that girls dont know is that when a guy has a girl his confidence levels goes really high and he feels he can be himself wihout being too shy anymore this confidence is found very attractive by girls being either single or in a relationship and it causes confusion. As i mentioned earlier do not let this crush feelings take over he is in a relationship and just cause hes been a friend and talking to you does not mean he might be trying to be with you...how do you think his girl would feel if he would to dump her? not nice huh? im pretty sure shed 1.feel heartbroken 2. sad 3. didnt expected it and doesnt know why its going on or 4. all of the above? I know you might be are yearning to have that special person in your life but consider this...if he was your boyfriend would it be fair to you if his female friend got in between you two? or didnt respect the bouderies? or more importantly respect not just him or the relationship but more importantly you? i bet you would not like the feeling...im not saying go with the other crush but what i am doing is trying offering a soft cushing as to how you can explain to yourself why it wouldnt be a good idea to try something with him. I think many girls would greatly appriciate it if another girl would tell the guy hey you have a girl and i may not know her but i wouldnt like it if someone did that to me. there may be a future in store for the other crush but id take it slow and really try to focus on what you DO NOT want in a guy and what you do.
I hope this helps
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