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Husbands Ex
I have been on and off with my husband for almost 9 years, we have been married for one of those 9. We have a child together, our own home, and a happy life for the most part. Recently, my husbands ex, of just a few months, has gotten in contact with me to tell me that he told her everything that he tells me now. That they were engaged and still together when him and I got back together this last time. I asked my husband about this but he swears up and down she is lying just to start problems. She told me he bought her a ring and everything, and that she broke it after she found out he was with me. My husband has been known to lie, but so has this girl. I am not really sure who to believe at this point. I am so hurt and confused.
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Theres two things going on here: This other woman is just trying to get a reaction from you. She maybe hurt by your husband and doesn't want him to be happy or with anyone. She feels that if she tells you all of this you will doubt your husband and your relationship, which you are. This woman is not your friend, so why would she feel that it is important to tell you that your husband is a jerk? she doesn't!!! Your husband does not sound like an angel either, but you and him need seriously figure this out. In the end it's better to know now than 10 years from now. Last words: DON'T WORRY ABOUT THAT OTHER WOMAN!!!
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Why does it really matter whether they were or not?? The important thing is that he obviously loves and cares for you deeply because you are now his wife! It just sounds to me like this other girl is jealous that it's not her that he picked. I wouldn't give her the satisfaction of causing any trouble between the two of you---she just needs to be told to back off!!
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If this woman has no substantial evidence confirming anything she has said, I would not believe a word of it. What tips me off the most is that she "broke" the ring. I would think any vindictive female would do the smart thing, and SELL IT. Overall, she must have something to gain by attempting to break you two apart. Either she's looking to make him hurt in order to make herself feel better, or she naively believes she can get back with him if she takes you out of the picture.
Put this in the back of your mind and do not hold it against him. Right now, all you've got is some crazy woman's claims. If she cannot prove anything, ignore her.
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i wouldnt believe a stranger over your husband. i meean how bad has your husbands lies been?like would he lie about soemthing like this?go with your first instinct even if your unsure of it because its most likely the right choice to make. girls can be very bitchy and will do anything to get what they want, dont forget that.
On the other hand she said she was engaged to him and broke it off which means theyr not together anymore which means she just wants to make trouble and break up a happy family. to me she sounds as if she wants to get your husband back.maybe he made her angry. how did she find out he was with you?and where did she get your number from? why is she tellign you all this now?just think about it and again go with your first instinct. you know your husband better than any of us do, she sounds like a cow just trying to break up soemthing good, dont let it happen!dont let her get to you and stay strong xox
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