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Post-first kiss question... guys' answers esp. wanted:)
Posted Tuesday October 13 2009, 6:57 pm
I'm a few months into my 16th year and the guy I'm going out with is turning 18 next month.
We just had our first kiss and it was my very first kiss, but he's had two or three girlfriends before. It wasn't awkward at all, the situation we were in was practically begging for it-- he had been holding me for half an hour and my lips had been settled on his cheek, it was dark and we were all alone-- but I know I was really dfjsdf about it. He did like the pecks, no tongue, and it was really romantic, but all I could focus on was, shit I suck at this. Like I know I got better because when I kissed him goodbye later it seemed natural but at first I was like, doing nothing. He didn't say anything about the kisses afterward though wh...
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My new guy shows me off in front of his friends...
Posted Tuesday October 13 2009, 6:14 pm
...is this a good or bad sign?
We were on our third date the other night and a few of his good guy friends happened to be there too (it was an obvious coincidence, not planned). I had never talked to any of them so after he introduced me I didn't say much, but while he carried on his conversation with them, he was a little aggressive about me taking his hands and pulling me closer to him. I was basically wrapped around him.
I know guys like to show off their girls in front of other guys and I know its good that he is so proud of me but most guys I know shy away from PDA around their friends, not move towards it. What does this say in terms of what he'd be like in a relationship? - We're 17 btw.
:)thaanks.
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my boyfriend is depressed/angry ALOT
Posted Tuesday October 13 2009, 6:14 pm
its like part of his personalty.
if hes upset he goes off on a crazy rant on whatever is pissing him off and you cannot say or do anything to clam him down or make him happy. seriously nothing.
for instance-work.
he works with me and hates his job with a passion. heres the deal-i host/bus(make tips) and make a great deal of money(usually 70$ plus) compared to him-making exactly 40$ a night for busting his ass doing dishes and prep. our resteraunt is always busy so you have to rush to do everything-no matter what position you are. he usually has to hustle twice as hard as everyone else in the resteraunt. we work under the table by the way. everyone else makes a great deal more than he does. he knows this and he is totall...
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how to rekindle the passion
Posted Tuesday October 13 2009, 3:56 pm
i have been dating my beu for a year and a month and was wondering what i can do to surprise him and rekindle our romance a little?
like sexy ideas for us
and nice gifts or something?
or a good movie we can watch that will make us look at eachother and realise how in love we are? like the notebook but weve seen that a lot so any others? lol
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Crush Life
Posted Tuesday October 13 2009, 2:51 pm
So i have a crush...he never looks into my eyes. when he looks at me. my heart feels weird. and he looks away as soon as possible and i do too. Before, he used to hate me since i like him. but now, he's getting kinder. I was like so obsessed with him. Over obsessed..i used to dream him and stare at his face and name for hours :) but..i want him to like me..and not hate me..what should i do? impressing him does not work.
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im not strong enough
Posted Tuesday October 13 2009, 2:19 pm
so there is this boy i have a huge crush on he knows that i like him and sometimes me him and my bestfriend have a joint convo on msn and even though m friends alway says thing that are so embarising i really enjoy it to be honest he is jst so nie to talk to but i really wont to tell him how much i love him and then mybe ask him out but im just not strong enough to do that what cold i do ??
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how do i get him off my mind
Posted Tuesday October 13 2009, 11:41 am
19/f
i need to get over this guy, nothing ever really happened between us, although i wish it did, but we went out for a week and i ended it because i felt more depressed when we were actually going out as appose to being friends, but he always makes me smile and he flirts alot with me when ever i see him and he makes me feel good, but he's kind of a jerk, which was part of the reason why i ended it, but because we never did anything, the curiosity of what it would have been like has been driving me mad. i want to move on and find someone else but it's hard for me to meet new guys and he always pops up in the back of my head, especially because my friends are friends of his too and keep telling me he still wants me. i still want to ...
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am i too old for him?
Posted Tuesday October 13 2009, 11:29 am
Ok so I'm 19 years old. I never really acted my age since when I was little i failed 2 grades but even like that i was always "childish". I don't look my age either. Most people think im only 16 and freak out when i say I'm 19. Mys sister is 14 and shes my best friend. we do mostly everything together. Shes gonna have her "quinceanera" which is when a girl turns 15 party. So she has her "court of honor" with all her friends. I never met X before but i did hear about him. And my sister said he liked me because he would see me when i would pick her up from school. there has only been two practices and he has went to both. the first time i saw him i thought he was around 17. but hes 15. We started talking during t...
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How do i forget?
Posted Tuesday October 13 2009, 7:34 am
Well, Ive liked this guy for a really long time (2 and a half years)...and ive been wwaitin a really long time to see if he likes me back because i already told him I liked him.But now i want to forget about him and move on but i cant because i see him everyday. So please help me.
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Love or Lust?
Posted Tuesday October 13 2009, 3:03 am
Been in this relationship for 8 months now, we've had our break ups and a few though times. We've also had sex...blah, anyways sometimes when we do "it," I tend to get a bit strange after, I feel a bit sad and I don't know why. Is this normal? We live in different suburbs but in the same state, he visits as often as he cans, as do I. We speak on the phone every night. Hmmm...I've also had a small crush on this other guy, a friend of mine, had it for awhile now, before my actual bf and I got together. =S
I thought it'd go away since I have someone else, but it never really did, is this ok? Is it normal?
My crush likes me too, but nothing ever happened since we both are very shy. My bf on the other hand, is pretty hea...
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am i realy this stupid...
Posted Tuesday October 13 2009, 1:21 am
ok. so i've been with my girlfriend for a very long time now and everything has been to good to be true up until recently. about 2 months ago she cheated on me while she was drunk and i was out of town. i caught her the next day when i saw the hickey on her neck. now im constantly thinking about that and i love her to much to end it. (blah blah blah, theres plenty of other fish in the sea, dont even tell me that im tired of hearing it". but today i've also come to realize that he may have given her an std which i too now have i think.... and still i love her to much to break up with her. so i just want to know. does anyone else think im being a dumbass about it all? you can be honest. i would love to hear it.. it would actually make me...
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What was my girlfriend doing in the shower?!
Posted Tuesday October 13 2009, 12:17 am
Ok, I was at my girlfriend's house so we could go out and she had yet to take a shower. She didn't want to go out dirty so, of course, I told her that I would wait for her. Well, while she was showering I walked in because I really had to go (she is always cool with me coming in) and I saw her doing something really strange. She had the shower head (it's one of those handheld ones) shooting water between her legs! I'm talking, legs spread and everything! I didn't say anything to her because I didn't want to embarrass her but WHAT WAS SHE DOING?!
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Ex boyfriend?
Posted Tuesday October 13 2009, 12:16 am
im 16/f. I dated this guy last year, he was 14 at the time, and i was 15. He was a year younger than me (he was in 8th grade, i was a freshman) Well, the relationship was stupid and ended in a total of 6 weeks. We fought the entire time, hung out alone a total of 2 times, and it wasnt a real relationship. Well, ive been dating this guy, whos 17/m, for 10 months now. I truely believe i love him. We fight sometimes, but not a lot. Well, the problem is, every time i see the ex, i feel jealous and i just want him to want me. I dont want to be with him at all, i have no desire to be with anyone but my boyfriend, yet i realllly want him to like me. Why is that? Does anyone know what could possibly make me want him to want me, yet i dont want him...
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Is hooking up with your best guy friend a good idea?
Posted Monday October 12 2009, 11:58 pm
Well, I am a girl and I am 17 years old. I have know this guy for 6 years now and he has been there for me through everything. I literally can not live without him. I always call him my guardian angel. The other day i met one of his friends an we ended up making out. It was just a casual high school type of thing. Im young i like to have fun thats why i dont date to much. After i dropped off the guy my best friend grabbed me an kisses me. To me honest it was kinda like kissing my brother. Anyway we tried it again saturday an oh my god it was the best night of my life. Like iv never felt so strong for a guy. I just cant decide to follow through with this crazy connection, be causal friends who fool around, or go back to normal as fast as pos...
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nerdy kid
Posted Monday October 12 2009, 11:06 pm
So I kinda like this kid who's more on the nerdy side and not so "hot" side.
I'm more popular and have a lot of friends,yet for some reason I like this kid.
He supposedly liked me a few weeks ago and i didnt tell him i liked him but i didnt tell him i didnt.
we usually talk everyday online but like sometimes he doesnt talk to me first and i don't know if he still likes me,because if he does...then he might just not wanna be annoying.
I'm really good friends with one of his best friends and So i guess ill talk to him and see what the deal is.
The kid also talks to all my friends,never announcing that he likes them but implying that they are really pretty and stuff,and im sure he talks to them as w...
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Boyfriend of 2 years hasn't answered my calls in 48 hours...
Posted Monday October 12 2009, 4:27 pm
My boyfriend and I have been going out for 2 years and 3 months
In the beginning of September we both went to college. It has been really difficult because we have no way of seeing each other. We have been having a rough time and fighting but we have gone through a lot together and I think we both love each other very much.
We were supposed to both go home this weekend and hang out on Saturday night. I called him a few times on Sunday because he wasn't answering my texts or calls since Saturday around 4.
Finally on Sunday he texted me at 11:30 at night saying he's really sick throwing up and has a fever and stayed at college and that he was sorry and loves me.
I asked him when I could call him and he said soo...
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Is it wrong? Please Answer Thank YOu :)
Posted Monday October 12 2009, 3:36 pm
My friend jacklin said i can use her account. This is her friend Jasmine. Is it wrong for a 14 year old girl to go out with a 17 year old guy? I mean i love him really much. I dotn want it to be wrong cause i lvoe him so much. IS it wrong for a 14 year old girl to go with a 17 year old?
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WTF?
Posted Monday October 12 2009, 3:34 pm
So my ex boyfriend of over a year...i hadn't spoken to him til today. He told me he missed me A LOT! he keep saying A LOT and he was really happy to hear from me...he still cares and loves me...he is VERY unhappy with thee situation..it will be a week that we haven't been together.
The reasons for the break-up:
Long distance
Needs to get things in order
I can't get over it and I feel that our feelings for one another are really strong. What should I do? I want him back.
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Sexual Advice
Posted Monday October 12 2009, 3:25 pm
Hey, I'm a female, and 17 years old. I have had sex more than 7 times and dont get me wrong it feels really good, but I was just wondering why I haven't gotten off???! the guy does obviously but I dont think I have?? Is there something wrong? or I would know if I did get off right? because i dont think i have. ): Id like to cuz I'm sure id love sex a lot more if i did. am I correct? any advice? thanks
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sad break up songs
Posted Monday October 12 2009, 8:31 am
Hey guys....so my first love and I just had an unfortunate break up. Its been really tough on me, and it certainly had been a confusing split. I'm dealing with it as best as I can with some help from my friends and a counselor.
Now all thats left is for me to have my alone time to just be sad and cry. Can you please recommend some good break up songs? Something that will make me cry. Thanks.
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