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Crush Life


Question Posted Tuesday October 13 2009, 2:51 pm

So i have a crush...he never looks into my eyes. when he looks at me. my heart feels weird. and he looks away as soon as possible and i do too. Before, he used to hate me since i like him. but now, he's getting kinder. I was like so obsessed with him. Over obsessed..i used to dream him and stare at his face and name for hours :) but..i want him to like me..and not hate me..what should i do? impressing him does not work.

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misunderstoodx3 answered Thursday October 22 2009, 3:06 am:
i'm sure if you talk to him more he'll
begin to like you more 9 our 10 the more
you talk to someone the more you get to
know them as a person better as an individual
so, just try saying hi and talking to him but,
you can't force someone to like you they can
only like you themselves, and maybe being alittle
sarcastic flirty with him and smiling with make
him notice you alittle more.

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kiran answered Thursday October 15 2009, 9:24 pm:
I agree with the person below. You should start off as friends and see where it goes from there. You can't make someone like you more than a friend. It just comes to them, so your gonna have to show him what a great person you are. Don't try to show him how obsessed you are with him or it will creep him out. Just try being friends and don't act like you like him in the beginning. Start off new. Good luck!

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Raindrops812a answered Wednesday October 14 2009, 5:17 am:
why dont you just try talking to him more :]
find out things he likes & talk about them.
just try and become friends.
once you are, things can go further.
but if he does not like you, you should try & accept it. you cant really get someone to like you if they dont UNLESS they dont really know you yet. & to me it seems like he doesnt really know you that much, so as I said, start a convo & dont just stare at him haha :]
but if he'll only like you as a friend try & move on otherwhise you'll just get hurt, trust me on this.
another thing i find really weird is that he hated you because you like him?!.
to be honest, that shows he's not really worth it & that you shouldnt get your hopes up. I dont really understand how you can hate someone just because they fancy you. I fancy one of my friends [who doesnt fancy me back] & he knows it but he would never hate me for it :S
so just think about that, is he really worth it?
i hope i helped a little :] good luck!

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