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Post-first kiss question... guys' answers esp. wanted:)
I'm a few months into my 16th year and the guy I'm going out with is turning 18 next month.
We just had our first kiss and it was my very first kiss, but he's had two or three girlfriends before. It wasn't awkward at all, the situation we were in was practically begging for it-- he had been holding me for half an hour and my lips had been settled on his cheek, it was dark and we were all alone-- but I know I was really dfjsdf about it. He did like the pecks, no tongue, and it was really romantic, but all I could focus on was, shit I suck at this. Like I know I got better because when I kissed him goodbye later it seemed natural but at first I was like, doing nothing. He didn't say anything about the kisses afterward though which I'm not sure is good or bad.
Next time we're alone and the time seems right, should I admit he was my first kiss? The situation couldn't have been better, it wasn't awkward and thankfully I didn't make any major mistakes but I just feel like such a loser that I couldn't have done better at first. Opinions? Stories? haha;)
Please say your age and m/f... I'd love some guy responses haha :)
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awwwww how exciting...im sorry im not a male but i really want to reply lol.
firstly you should tell him that he was your first kiss, guys really like to be first to everything, show how pure your are. it will also bring you two close when your open about it.
it doesn matter whether your good at it or not,it was your first time just like driving a car.when you first get into the drivers seat tour not going to be able to just drive it without abit of practise.
all you do is press you lipps together and kiss like you would do to his cheek..im sure he probibly got that it was your first time because usually girls just kiss they dont just wait around if you know what i mean.
im sure he didnt say anything because he thought it was natural and there was nothing wrong abbout it...when you guys kissed did he ever try pull away and avoid the kiss after the first or second time??if no then he liked it so dont worry.
there was one time me and a boy kissed and he was really bad like he didnt know where to place his lips And the whole situation got abit awkward (youd both know when the kissing isnt good because thered be siliva everywhere and youd just feel it in your gut that these kisses are just not ment to be like that)
anyway after we kissed and tried to get it right acouple of times whe sat there quietly looking at the ground and in the end he comes out and blames it on me telling me that im not moving my lips right!!!I then come out and say, ehmm the last time i checked, when your trying to kiss someone it doesnt mean your trying to swallow their whole face along with it.it was kinda funny though, at the time.
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okay let me just say how totally awesome it is that you waited until you were 16 to have your first kiss. most girls dont. and second of all most guys like knowing that they were your first kiss because its something that you will remember for the rest of your life. however some guys are a little bit weary of it. and it sounds like that you did pretty well for your first kiss. im 21 years old and just realized that not every kiss had to be about tongue in your mouth and that there is such a thing for as a sweet gentle kiss, which is what you guys shared. now i wasnt the guy you were kissing so i cant state his opinion but from where i stand it sounded preety good to me. and you could always act like a blushing school girl(which you technically still are) and tell him the truth and that you want him to teach you to do it how he likes it... hope i helped
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