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am i too old for him?
Ok so I'm 19 years old. I never really acted my age since when I was little i failed 2 grades but even like that i was always "childish". I don't look my age either. Most people think im only 16 and freak out when i say I'm 19. Mys sister is 14 and shes my best friend. we do mostly everything together. Shes gonna have her "quinceanera" which is when a girl turns 15 party. So she has her "court of honor" with all her friends. I never met X before but i did hear about him. And my sister said he liked me because he would see me when i would pick her up from school. there has only been two practices and he has went to both. the first time i saw him i thought he was around 17. but hes 15. We started talking during the practice. He got the dance really fast so had to dace with most of the girls so they would understand it too. he said a little comment about dancing with me. (one girl wasn't there so i had to fill her place. I'm not in it) But i told him that i wasn't in it. Some how he ended up dancing with me and i was like. Why are you with me you should be with another girl. and he was like oh yeah. he asked me why i wasn't in it and i told him because i didn't want to and of my age. he said he thought i was 16. and i said nope I'm 19. Last practice was Sunday again he was flirting with me i try to stay away from him. but some how i always end up near him. We started talking about his cousins 15. and end up being really far away from the rest of the group. One girl saw us talking and said that we looked cute. i told her well I'm 19 and hes 15. and she laughed and said that she wouldn't tell. and he put his had around me and say thank you. When i drove everyone home i told them that they had to be quite cause i wasn't used to driving in car with a lot of people and who ever was the quietest got to ride shotgun well everyone was laughing because he was the quietest. he ended up being the last one to drop off. UGH! i kinda secretly am starting to like him more than what i think I'm aloud to. I don't think its right. Not about sex. because thats not even in my mind. I have always wanted to wait till I'm married. So what should I do should i follow along or just try and stay away from him?
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Hey it sounds cute, um as long as you don't take advantage of him, as in the common woman beats a man ( manbeaters ) with mental powers and controlling skills I think you two are do for something freaky and special.
but remember hes so young and dumb, emotions that you desire might not exist in his mind yet or ever
but hey, power to ya, think of it as your early stages to cougarism (women cougar) look it up on google.
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hmmm...the conflict here would be the fact that he's still a minor..he can tend to be immature at times plus the fact that girls mind matures faster than guys.
other than that, I don't see why there should be an age factor with any relationship. i mean, i know a lot of people whose age difference is way bigger than yours but still they made their relationship work...myself included.
see, i'm also older than my bf though we're both already in our twenties. we're already in our second year and counting. we both don't mind the age gap. we both don't care what other people say. it's all about working together to make our relationship successful..it could be a bit rocky at times but then again what relationship isn't?
i say go for it. give it a chance. with any endeavors, you'll never know the result unless you give it a shot, right?
good luck and wish you all the best!
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Yes, you are too old for him. He is a minor & you are an adult.
I would just stay away from him. It'll do you both a lot of good, especially you.
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theres nothing wrong in what you feel. I think this can happen to everyone. you might feel very comfortable in your age some people dont but you seem to feel very comfortable and that might be why he also seems very interesting to you. you are not old but there is one thing about him that i think you should consider. He may not be mature and he will be going through changes mentally physically that you may have already gone through which is good cause you can really be a good guide. because he is 15 and you 19 people may not like the ideal of you "robbing the craddle" but you can be his friend and like i said help be a guide to him an just get to know him and actually watch him mature and in a few years you might not feel this way about him being younger. I hope this helps
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