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how do i get him off my mind
19/f
i need to get over this guy, nothing ever really happened between us, although i wish it did, but we went out for a week and i ended it because i felt more depressed when we were actually going out as appose to being friends, but he always makes me smile and he flirts alot with me when ever i see him and he makes me feel good, but he's kind of a jerk, which was part of the reason why i ended it, but because we never did anything, the curiosity of what it would have been like has been driving me mad. i want to move on and find someone else but it's hard for me to meet new guys and he always pops up in the back of my head, especially because my friends are friends of his too and keep telling me he still wants me. i still want to remain friends, which i know we can because we were before, but how can i stop thinking of him in that way and what can i do to meet more guys?
please help me!
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I get how you feel about that. You probably won't forget about him for a long time. So me and my ex went out for 3 months. To this day, I still think about him and still wonder what could have happened.
Even if you guys go out for only a week, you probably won't forget each other. No matter how much you want to. You will get over him, but you won't stop thinking about him. Just give it some time and you will get over him. You just need to find another guy to put into your mind.
Honestly, if he is a jerk, you don't need him. So I'm glad you ended it. The easier it will be for you to get over him is if you stay as much as you can away from him. Even if he does have feelings for you, you just want to stay friends. You can get to that once your over him. But you want to control yourself to not fall back into him.
Meeting more guys isn't too hard. You can maybe talk to some of your friends who have other guy friends or even their boyfriends to see if they have any guys you can meet.
Hopefully everything works out. Good luck!
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I think you really liked the way you felt he made you smile and flirted with you in other words you liked what he did but you really never liked him. I think you did the right thing in protecting you feelings and not let it go out of control. Maybe bcause deep down you knew that the part of how he made you feel in those areas were only that and not love towards you. theres nothign wrong in think maybe things could have worked. I think you will meet someone who will make you feel the way you need to feel...loved. hang in there itll get better. I hope this helps
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