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Boyfriend of 2 years hasn't answered my calls in 48 hours...
My boyfriend and I have been going out for 2 years and 3 months
In the beginning of September we both went to college. It has been really difficult because we have no way of seeing each other. We have been having a rough time and fighting but we have gone through a lot together and I think we both love each other very much.
We were supposed to both go home this weekend and hang out on Saturday night. I called him a few times on Sunday because he wasn't answering my texts or calls since Saturday around 4.
Finally on Sunday he texted me at 11:30 at night saying he's really sick throwing up and has a fever and stayed at college and that he was sorry and loves me.
I asked him when I could call him and he said soon. When I did call him, he didn't pick up.
I called him several times today and he still hasn't picked up.
This means I haven't talked to him on the phone in over 48 hours.
DO you think he's just sick or is ignoring my calls???
WHAT SHOULD I DO? please don't say college relationships don't work.
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Well..he could possibly be sick but my guess is that he's spending his time with someone else. True that I don't know for sure but I'm a firm believer that actions speak louder than words! I wouldn't be telling you this if your relationship was only a few weeks or months old but since you've been together for 2yrs and there has been alot of fighting and rough times lately I would definitely say there's alot more to this then what he's saying.
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well first things first.never overcrowd your spouse and freak him out.trust me,nothings wrong.you guys have been together for a while nd you just run out of things to say so give it some time and when he calls back you'll have somthing to talk about.you guys are gonna be just fine.i know it'll work so if you have anymore questions you can contact me at ftiht@yahoo.com
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Without questioning his honesty, whether or not he is sick is not relevant. It does sound like he is avoiding you. If I read this right, he stood you up on Saturday - this is not behavior expected from a bf of two years who loves you.
My advice to you is stop calling him. Don't facebook him. Don't skype him. Don't contact him. Leave him alone. He knows from every missed call on his cell that you have been aggressively trying to get to him. Please increase your pride and don't hound him or you'll chase him away for good.
Ball is in his court. He'll call you in a couple weeks or so when he feels it is a safe time to approach you. In the meantime - get on with your college experience and enjoy the heck out it!!! Go out and meet new people and be confident that the ball is in his court and there is nothing more for you to do. If you do more, you will ruin what you have left.
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