im 16/f. I dated this guy last year, he was 14 at the time, and i was 15. He was a year younger than me (he was in 8th grade, i was a freshman) Well, the relationship was stupid and ended in a total of 6 weeks. We fought the entire time, hung out alone a total of 2 times, and it wasnt a real relationship. Well, ive been dating this guy, whos 17/m, for 10 months now. I truely believe i love him. We fight sometimes, but not a lot. Well, the problem is, every time i see the ex, i feel jealous and i just want him to want me. I dont want to be with him at all, i have no desire to be with anyone but my boyfriend, yet i realllly want him to like me. Why is that? Does anyone know what could possibly make me want him to want me, yet i dont want him? HELP PLEASE! this is extremely confusing to me. Thank you
AdviceMistress answered Tuesday October 13 2009, 11:01 am: I use to have those feelings...you're with a guy but yet you still kind of want the "ex". Those feelings are normal and yet confusing at the same time. I was dating this guy who I thought was amazing and loved him dearly but this "ex" of mine kept pooping in my head or showing up at the wrong place at the wrong time. You probably still have a little bit of a feeling for him but if you're in love with this guy I wouldn't even worry about it. Your ex is an ex for a reason and you should concentrate on the guy your with now. [ AdviceMistress's advice column | Ask AdviceMistress A Question ]
CassieStage answered Tuesday October 13 2009, 2:44 am: Well this happens you might not feel it. but deep deep down you still care about him and feel majorly jealous. If he kissed a girl in front of you, It would probably hurt right? Well i think everytime you see this guy picture your boyfriend to make you smile. im sorry if my advice wasnt so good. This is pretty confusing. [ CassieStage's advice column | Ask CassieStage A Question ]
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