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WTF?
So my ex boyfriend of over a year...i hadn't spoken to him til today. He told me he missed me A LOT! he keep saying A LOT and he was really happy to hear from me...he still cares and loves me...he is VERY unhappy with thee situation..it will be a week that we haven't been together.
The reasons for the break-up:
Long distance
Needs to get things in order
I can't get over it and I feel that our feelings for one another are really strong. What should I do? I want him back.
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This is really hard. Ive been in this same situation. Your always going to love him no matter what. If your guys didnt talk for a year and then he came back into your life your going to still have feelings for him.
Talk to him and tell him how you feel about the long distance thing and getting his life in order. If he cares about you enough and if you guys are truly in love things will work out. You guys will probably work if you try it again.
Good luck & hope i helped =]
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You didn't list an age so I am going to assume you are around 17-19. This is important because your mental maturity has a lot with my answer.
17-19 is around the only age I would begin to consider telling you it's OK to have a long distance relationship.
Long distance relationships take time and effort. When you miss them... you really miss them. If you have a fight, there's not much you can do about it.
But it can be good too. You would be forced to communicate more. Emails, chats, phone calls can all be ways to make your relationship stronger. You ever hear of your grandparents or parents talk about love letters? They mean a lot to some people. Not to mention the fact that when you do see him, it will make your time all the more sweeter.
My advice? Get whatever things you two needed to get in order and if you still want him back, talk about a long distance relationship. But be sure it's what you want. Absence does make the heart grow fonder, but it also makes for two lonely people
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